I was walking around at the mall one time and this gorgeous woman (probably in her mid or early 40's) wearing really short shorts passed by me... I turned around to check her nice shapley muscular legs out from behind. And when I turned back I noticed this girl give me an ugly look like "EWWWW... You were checkin out THAT?!". And yeah... I pretty much felt a lil embarrassed :P.. I'm not really attracted to girls my age... unless they have big sexy shapley muscular calves and thighs or don't have that whinney immature attitude. Most (I'm not saying all) girls my age are immature, annoying and like to play games and other lame stupid crap... Older women are mature and know what they want and dont play around and don't pull any bullcr@p.. I don't know any other dudes my age and are just attracted to older women.. Is this wrong/weird that I'm like this..? Should I feel embarrassed..? And does my english suck?? LOL!! Tell me what you think on Y!messenger (ID: skillz_you_cant_compete_with)
2006-12-29 18:19:42 · 16 answers · asked by mexipinoy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I really understand you situation....my girlfriend when i was 17 yrs old was 41 yrs old...............I was alway more mature for my age...the difference is that when I got into my teens...most of my male freinds were 5 to 7 years older than me.......so they accepted my older girlfirends easily........
You listed all the reasons I had.....I did not like immature or petty high school games.....I have always liked liked going to nice place...checking out art, museums, blues concerts, quality restaurants, independent movies...............
Don't know if you have been with an older women...but next time you get some grief for checking out an attractive older female...treat the person as immature person ...smile and acknowledge that you appreciate real beauty and women......always have pride in the women who attract you attention.............................
BTW...go for Professional Older Women...stay away from the ones looking for a daddy for the kids (so much baggage)
...you need single one to get started.....to learn the ropes.......start reading womens magazines and going to adult events alone......and ask smart questions at those events..............women are very smart...and pick up clues very quickly.............also don't be afraired of your yourth...smart clothing but tight in the private areas if ur in shape and show the package......don't expect relationships till you learn the ropes and don't get upset if you can't go to every event with her....she has a work rep....to promote.....your the boi toy for fun and liesure life......your not going the the company xmas party....but to Carribean...Europe.....Miami with her............
2006-12-29 21:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in no way experience embarrassment concerning the persons you're attracted to. it is your concepts and your physique, inspite of each and every thing. in case you be attentive to what you like, savor it! i've got consistently been attracted to adult men of their mid-Nineteen Forties, which replaced into extremely complicated for me till I became 30. distinctive human beings don't comprehend that adolescents isn't each and every thing, and adulthood and self-self assurance are incredibly alluring. Even now, i'm 31 and engaged to a 40 six-3 hundred and sixty 5 days-old guy, and distinctive my so-referred to as friends extremely gave me a tricky time approximately it whilst they found out. My actual friends, even nonetheless, have been chuffed that i replaced into chuffed. One issue is that relying on the place you reside, it ought to be unlawful which you will get entangled with somebody that lots older than you're till you change 18. i will aid you be attentive to that distinctive 40-something women could experience incredibly flattered at getting interest from a guy your age. Even at my age, it feels style of cool whilst teenage adult men examine me out. shall we me be attentive to i'm nonetheless alive and lady, you be attentive to? And by employing the way, your English does not suck. i'm an English instructor in Russia, so i be attentive to what i'm speaking approximately. :)
2016-10-06 05:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Everyone has their own preferences. For me I prefer woman who's a little older than I and mature in thinking.
My friend use to say, to think about it this way. When you apply for a job the main thing they look for is experience. And this certainly what your looking for a woman "experience". Nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-29 19:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your English seems to be fine. I really don't think there is anything wrong with you that you are attracted to older women. Like most guys, I am attracted by women my own age. But different stokes different folks.
2006-12-29 18:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women are I think, more attractive to many men. I certainly find them superior to young inexperienced "girlies" Older women are mature, sexually experienced and confident. You can keep the teeny boppers - give me an older woman every time!
2006-12-29 23:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very normal and common don't worry about it
instead concentrate on making your fantasies a reality ,then you will feel a lot better.
and you will be surprised how many older woman absolutely love young guys(remember the movie -Mrs Robinson)
i have some older woman fiends ,who will not settle for anything else.
the girls reaction is just jealousy and feeling inadequate
2006-12-29 18:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you like what you like. I prefer older men myself. Once you get in your 20's age won't be such a big deal. It's pretty common for guys to like older women. Haven't you ever seen American Pie and Stiffler's mom?
2006-12-29 18:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think thats neccessarily a bad thing. Of course, if you're planning to get laid you might want to wait until you're 18 to avoid getting that women charged with rape. Everyone is different in what appeals to them, so go for it if thats what you really want. Don't know what kind of advice really applies here.
2006-12-29 18:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by kirklandtp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women are hot. Like Stacie's mom for example.
2006-12-29 18:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK... u like round shapes like all of us...guys... if a women has round shapes then she is hot... that's why u probably liked the older one... she is at her peak... but aftherwards she will get smaller and older... u will probably like girls your age soon...
2006-12-30 09:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋