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please let me knw cuz im still a virgin dat wants to lose her virginty

2006-12-29 17:38:21 · 17 answers · asked by mizzconfused 1 in Health Women's Health

17 answers

TyPing lyk dizzz means u arnt reddy to luze ur virginity

once u kan get a diktiionary & lyk lern to ttype u have dah all clear

[And yes, tearing the hymen hurts. You lose blood. Whoopie. Look it up on Wikipedia.]

2006-12-29 17:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

From the way you spell, I'd say you aren't ready to lose your virginity. What are you, like, 13 maybe? Seriously, don't rush it. If you just give it away, you will be known as a "hoe". I'm sure you know what that means. Wait for someone you actually love and who loves you back. Especially, if you are still in school [which I bet you are. Middle school probably.] All the guy is gonna do is take it and then leave you, then go tell the whole school about it. And, you will officially be deemed "easy". He might come back if you are willing to open your legs again. But, you don't want a guy who wants you just because he wants to screw you. So, again, just wait.

2006-12-29 17:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I do not know your age but wait as much as you can. I lost my virginity at the age of 24. Make sure its what you really want and that the guy truly loves you(not that you love him but that he does too). Your virginity is something that once its gone, you can't never get it back. Its special and shouldn't be given to just any guy. As far as pain goes yes losing your virginity is painful. It mainly depends on your hymen(whether its thick or thin). Your first couple of times having sexual intercourse may hurt. It will take time for you to get use to it. Some girls bleed a little, some bleed more(you may bleed like if your on your period), and theres some who don't bleed at all.

2006-12-29 17:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 4 · 0 0

There are a number of factors in determining just how much discomfort or bleeding you may have. Do you exercise or masturbate? Most of the time your first time will be awkward and suck. Anyone who says their first time is great is full of crap. Just be aboslutely sure to use protection. Lubricant won't hurt either. Also I suggest setting a mood to make you more relaxed and comfortable. Some soft music, candle lights, massaging, lots of foreplay. All of these will help. The more relaxed you are, the more comfortable and enjoyble the experience will be for you both.

2006-12-29 18:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 3 · 1 0

the hymen breaking is what causes the pain. some girls break it without even knowing it , by exercising, going horse back-riding, inserting a tampon, and some girls are born without one! sometimes it hurts because your not lubricated enough. other times your to young and your body is telling you it isn't ready for sex. hope you aren't very religious. the rule for Catholicism[sorry my spelling went downhill awhile ago] and Christianity is so sex before marriage. it may be popular now to not be a virgin, but when you get to your older people will be congratulating you for being a virgin. anyways, when the hymen breaks, some girls don't even feel it, other have alot of pain. some bleed , other don't. everybody is different. if it is that big of a deal to your though, you can go to your gyno, and have then break your hymen for you. ohhh-ho-hoooo the good ol' gyno. hope ya like pap smears!!! oh yes all the fun of being a women!

2006-12-29 17:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It did hurt for me and there is minor bleeding. It is almost spot bleeding if you go through that. You might want to get on birth control because you lose it though, you don't want any unwanted mistakes.

It will hurt for the next couple of days and you will be tender in that area until your body is used to it. Sex will be difficult for the next few times however after that, it will be okay.

2006-12-29 17:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I don't think it hurts too bad, but it depends on your size and the size of the guy. Make sure you're not dry-use some lube and of course a CONDOM!

I luckily didn't bleed like some people have experience, but a small clot isn't uncommon either.

2006-12-29 17:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by schmodijodi 2 · 0 0

Most women expereince pain and bleeding when they lose their virginity. There is a membrane that cover your vaginal cannal called they hymen. This is torn the first time a woman has sex. It is the tearing of this membrane that causes the pain and bleeding associated with losing one's virginity.

2006-12-29 17:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey don't do it if you are not going to get married. If I could change I would not have ever lost it and Yes it do hurt and for some people there is alot of blood for other it is just a small amount but please think about it very hard it is not worth it save yourself. Baby you are not missing anything. Think about it.

2006-12-29 17:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Yes it hurts during and after. Some times it hurts for days after. It depends on how large the penis is. You will bleed alittle because of the hymen braking.

2006-12-29 17:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Linda G 2 · 1 0

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