deal with the situation? What does this make me? Please please don't write me back if all you are is just to make fun of me. I know The bible says it is wrong but... Please help.
2006-12-29 17:29:43 · 18 answers · asked by HEART 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Of course I have, and i pursued them and we had a wonderful relationship for a while. But then I'm Bi so I don't have a problem with it.
As for the bible - it doesn't mention Lesbianism so you've got the green light from upstairs.
2006-12-30 01:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the bible says a lot of things are wrong. We all try our best to be good people. I don't think being gay makes you a bad person. I love my girlfriend, and God knows I love him and I'm a good person. So you can be a gay Christian. God's love is for everyone who accepts Jesus Christ as their savior.
Second, I definately have fallen in love with a woman. In my case, it was easy, because that woman also had fallen for me. But if you don't know how the other person feels, then take your time with the friendship and get her opinion in general about how she feels about homosexuality.
Third, this doesn't make you anything that you don't want to be. Straight girls can fall in love with girls and gay girls can fall in love with boys. Love doesn't discriminate! Just try not to force your heart to love someone that you don't love...because that could end up hurting the both of you. Good luck : )
p.s.- most people here will never laugh at you...if they do, they're on the wrong board.
2006-12-29 18:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with the situation, as you would if it were any relationship in which you were in love. What it makes you is someone in love with someone else which is wonderful (don't let anyone tell you it is wrong or convince you not to pursue this when you have feelings like this). Don't let the bible or any christian or anti-gay bashers sway your feelings until you at least try this relationship for a while and see how it goes. You are the only one who will know if you like this relationship no one else,and this will take some time and patience and experience. Good luck. I hope you enjoy your time with this person and you are treated with love,respect,honesty,and tlc by her.
2006-12-29 17:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Albertan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, the bible only says it's wrong if you believe it says that. That book has went through changes over the years. It's been written by humans, which are prone to error. Also, societies have changed a lot so it takes a lot of research, cross-referencing, and interpretation to really figure out what any passage means to you. As for being attracted to the same sex, for me it was about as big of a realization as that of me liking vanilla ice cream instead of chocolate. It didn't really make much of a difference.
2006-12-29 17:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have never "fallen in love" with some of the same sex but I have definitely had differend kinds of feelings (sexual, love-like) towards them. For me it was just a phase and now I am happily married to someone of the opposite sex - the important thing is to decided what it really means for you and don't be shy, don't deny yourself. Maybe it's a phase, maybe it's not... you decided. But either way, it's OK.
2006-12-29 17:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by madame_b 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But frankly speaking, it's just some emotional confuse in ur brian. Maybe u r admiring him/her for whathe/she has but not in u or maybe u just like him/her.
Real love will stand through time and testings. Just don't focus on it too much as it will surely affect your daily life. Talk to someone that u can trust, an older person would be good as they have more experiences.
It's not wong to feel that way but it is not right to just says that you are homo or les.
2006-12-29 18:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by wings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, I actually have loved my similar-sex companions. i have been in 3 severe relationships with different females in my existence so a procedures, and that i loved each and each and every of them -- not basically taking section in them sexually yet being in love, emotionally, romantically, mentally, spiritually, each and every way. OTOH, i'd been in countless really short sexual relationships with opposite-sex companions (adult men) earlier to popping out as a lesbian 15 years in the past, and one sexual relationship with a guy after popping out -- and that i did not love any of them. I loved their employer as friends, and mainly actual quite loved the sex on a basically actual aspect -- yet love? Romance? Emotional intimacy with a guy? No way. I basically did not have those emotions for any of them. the perfect i might want to do became a technique of pleasant, affectionate companionship.
2016-10-16 22:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by kenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you for real. this is the lgbt section of course we have fell in love with people of the same sex!!! LOL!!! this would make you gay dear and you deal with it the same as you deal with everything else in your world; accept it an go on. there is nothing you can do to change it and besides a very wise woman oncer said "people do not fall in love using their eyes, but by using their heart."
2006-12-29 17:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have fell in love with the same sex...we have been happily together for 4 years and lived together for 3 years...all my life something in my life was missing...and the second I met my girlfriend that empty hole I had in my life was finally filled...she makes my life complete...sure the bible does say it is wrong...but in all honesty...how could love and happiness ever be wrong???
2006-12-29 17:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by me_being_me 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No. I have not fallen in love with a member of the same sex.
But you have to follow how you feel. Don't hold back because you think it's wierd, or the Bible says it's wrong.
You'll never be happy if you live this way.
2006-12-29 17:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋