Do you think we are still bff's? I mean we NEVER talk at school u r popular and i am not you are in sports non stop i am not you never have time for me and i have time for you but it is like you are not trying to make this friendship work it needs to be worked with cause i can littleery whatch our frienship slowly fading away and flying out the window do you still want to be friends i do but i dont know if i am just holding on to the good old days or what what do you want?
I sent that to my bff since 4th grade but we are staarting to grow apart adn i dont know what to do about it is that to harsh i need advice i mean we never talk or anything what should i do?
-A helpless friend
2006-12-29 17:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like the friendship is headed south because interests have changed and things in common is a big part of friendship. Friendships move in waves so they could easily come back around. Nothing like knowing someone who has the time capsul of your life in their head. Be patient.
Good luck.
2006-12-29 17:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens a lot with ppl. when u get older u find out that you dont really have a lot in common. if you both work really hard to bring your friendship back together it might work. but if that other grl isnt trying, i say let it be.its the slow fade of love, and it happens to lots of ppl. its happened to me twice. its super hard at first but you will get over it....at first u will acknowledge that ur friendship is over. u wont say anything to each other. and after a while u just might start talking or just be friendly with each other...but only sometimes will u patch up the friendship.
my friend and i realized we didnt have a lot in common, and neither of us said anything, our friendship just faded off and we didnt talk. now we talk sometimes and are just friendly to each other. im not expecting more than that and neither is she.
i suggest you download this song from itunes or something, it helped me and the chorus really says everything.
A Man/Me/Then Jim by: Rilo Kiley
2006-12-29 17:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard when people grow apart!
Stay friends! like too say hello and let her/him know that you are there if your needed and move on still give birthday and Christmas cards.
I did this with my best friend we grew apart!
we were friends from the first day of kindergarten, we are now in our mid 20's and we grew back together. she was the maid of honer at my wedding Sept 05 and was there when my 2nd daughter was born Dec 05, there is nothing wrong with growing app art, it happens but make the effort and it might workout
Good luck.
2006-12-29 17:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by elfsbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do ne thing you said you have time for her right?..well if shes not trying to hangout w. you then truly im sry but she may not be that good of bff,and theres no point in wasting your dayz trying to spend time w. sumone who just feels like they have to hangout w. you bcz you been friends 4 ever, and in highskool, which im guessing ur in, girls change friends all the time, and honestly some of the greatest friends you will have are the ppl who u never thought you would be friends w. so open your range, even if it sounds stupid talk to sumone you normally wouldn't.
2006-12-29 17:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Adddison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you already sent that to her...at least now you will get a clear answer from her...even if she doesn't answer...thats your answer. I assume...your in school so your still a teenager...and friends really do come and go, as you grow up you grow apart from people you once were a lot alike. I woudln't dwell on this, whatever happens, happens, just try and focus on meeting other people and making new friends.
2006-12-29 17:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by supersssweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel me and my best friend where friend for 5 years...she was preppy i was more of the emo rocker tipe lol....she was only my friend when she wanted to be and eventually we left the school we where going to....its hard to let go of your best friend but now i have new friends and one that lives with us lol.....we still talk on the phone but i realized that if she didnt want to make time for me....what was the point in waiting alone
2006-12-29 17:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by dutchess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you do anything? Why do you think you should do anything? What would happen if you did nothing? Does it matter if you do nothing or something? Do you think you can change things if you do something or nothing? It is hard to say but I doubt it very seriously.
2006-12-29 17:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this girl is your friend anymore she probably got popular and didnt have time for the not so popular friend anymore. i would just forget about her and move on and start making new friends.
2006-12-29 17:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for another one.
he has lost interest in you.
now he just takes you for granted.
he will wake up but probably too late.
dont take him back cos it will only happen again.
2006-12-29 17:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life as best you can
2006-12-29 17:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋