A "friend?" of mine who told me a while ago, that she just wanted to be friends when i made my intentions known. She had some intrest before but i suppose it faded... we have stayed friends but she has been acting... well odd for a "friend" lately. I havnt ever heard of anyone saying they are not interested and then suddenly acting interested though so im confused... any ideas? Otherwise ill probably let it be.
2006-12-29 17:10:49 · 9 answers · asked by korn_issues_29 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, it happens quite a bit actually. Think about it, wouldn't you rather marry a great friend?
Girls seem to take time to warm up to a guy they really like. Girls are afraid to let a guy into their lives as a serious romantic prospect because they really are afraid of letting down their guard. When they become good friends with a guy, and they know that guy would like more, and the timing is right, they will start to show interest, simply because they can trust you. The older girls get, the more trust means to them. It's biological, not psychological.
2006-12-29 17:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls change their mind verfy often. So next time she agrees it is better to beat the bed, before she changes her mind. For that matter even boys are like that only. If a better specimen walks into the party, I forget my date, who is with me.
This is what is both most fascinating and frustrating about us humans!!
Best of Luck
2006-12-29 17:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely talk to her about it if she keeps sending you vibes. Every girl has a right to change her mind. It is possible she respects your willingness to be her friend when you wanted more, some guys would have walked away. Please treat her with all the respect you should and don't defraud her future husband of what belongs to him.
2006-12-29 17:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are mysterious !! we act on instinct a lot of the time and it can get confusing.. sounds optimistic anyhow !!!!
2006-12-29 17:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by ms.kissel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens all the time--get used to it and expect it.
2006-12-29 17:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by butch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she most likely thinks it's a little weird that you have feelings for her.
2006-12-29 17:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by cat-o-doom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if anythings wrong...it works
2006-12-29 17:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by coolkhane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes.
2006-12-29 17:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be
2006-12-29 17:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy-C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋