The problem here is that my friend got marry because of an arrangement and the girl he got marry with have a boyfriend. At the start he didn't care but it now he fall in love with her but he respects the fact that she has a bf and he doesn't want to make a move even tought she showed some affections towards him. what can he do about it?
2006-12-29 17:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by bravo20212000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think he should show her all the affection he feels for her, and eventually she'll see how much he cares for her, and she'll return his affections. As long as he treats her right, I think that his love will win her over. And, since they live as man and wife, she's with her husband more than with her bf. Having a husband who is very attentive to you is very attractive for a woman, and hard to resist. Kindness and love always wins. <*)))><
2006-12-29 17:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always want what we cant have. Your friend needs to get out. Look to be honest the more your friend keeps trying to prove his love the more the wife is going to view him as pathetic. See she has got to think what kind of guy allows himself to be used like that. I have got to ask what kind of man married a woman who has a boyfriend ? there must be some circumstances that occurred that we are all not aware of. In short why would you want to be married to someone who doesn't respect you enough to let go of everyone else?
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2006-12-30 00:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kourtnie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants to do i mean that has to be crap having a arranged marriage and u should know that she is propably not going to be that easy to get along with unless she does want to marry u and she is getting away form something but i doubt that she needs respect cuz there is none when she does not even get to decide wheather or not she wants to marry u you can't make people love u and they don't have to give u respect but u have to have the bigger person and give her respect and love
2006-12-29 17:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by mar! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhh if she knows she in love with her bf why is she married at the first place?? cant she just say no to the parents?? now she cause a problem..so i suggest...whether she live her life with her husband or just get divorce and run away with her bf....
2006-12-29 17:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by young wifey~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
juts broke up man.... leave her .. simple becoz.. your friend cant force the girl to love him... and its really hurting to find smeone you love lovin g someone else.. so i suggest to your friend no need to ran behind her like a dog... just leave the **** on its place and choose someone else.. who atleast respect his feelings and understand his LOVE :(
2006-12-29 17:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the marriage
2006-12-29 17:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's married. she's his wife. he's gotta show whos boss. he's gotta show that she belongs to him!
2006-12-29 17:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋