is it someone who is well taken care of?
or someone who gets everything?
can they be a nice person?
or only mean?
popular?
not popular?
rich?
normal?
pretty and snobby?
or pretty and sweet?
ugly and rude?
ugly and nice?.. who just gets things?
people say im spoiled and i want to know if i fit in wiht your opinions.
i'm not rude to people unless they are mean to me i stand up for myself..
i'm in the the popular crowd and i get what i want but it's not like a flaunt it... my family says were pretty confortable the way we live... like we have money i guess i don't know... based on what i got for xmas... people say now i'm extremely spoiled...!
HELP! please!
2006-12-29 17:00:43 · 22 answers · asked by Random is my passion 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
spoiled - a person whose parents or other educators systematically fail to teach socially acceptable behavior and discipline.
but for me a spoiled is the one that gets what he/she wants and gets mad easily when not given the one he/she wanted.
it happens most on a popular, rich and pretty girls. because they get what they want and do what they want without any hesitations
2006-12-29 17:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm exactly like that. People tell me I'm spoiled, and I'll admit that I do get a lot of what I want, but I'm not rude about it. I'm very thankful for everything that I have. I try my hardest to be nice to everyone and I'm not exactly popular, but I'm not anywhere near the "unpopular crowd." I think being spoiled means you get a lot of what you want. In my opinion, a spoiled person can be nice and sweet, or rude and ungrateful.
2006-12-29 17:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my own family tells me im spoiled because my mom grew up kind of poor and now we live comfertably and my mom thinks I act spoiled/rich/snobby. i would say spoiled is someone who doesn't have to work for the things they have, things are handed to them. a truly spoiled person never really just 'does without'. Remember, if its your parents that are giving you all these nice presents and if you dont work very hard for them...its not your fault ur spoiled. generally its the parents fault if a kid is truly spoiled. if you are truly grateful for everything you have and you dont feel like you have a 'right' to have nice things(nice things are a privelage not a right) then you aren't spoiled. a sign you are spoiled is if you are easily upset when things dont go your way or you dont get what you want, then you could be spoiled. if you have to work a bit for some of your things than you aren't spoiled. spoiled ppl think that they just 'deserve' and have a 'right' to get things. no one has a 'right'.
you could just be privelaged and not spoiled. you know yourself and your family, you can think and decide if you really are spoiled.
also someone who is popular isnt neccessarily spoiled, popular ppl are popular for reasons, and they work to be popular. its hard, popularity usually isnt just handed to you-- u have to assess your every move and if you make one mistake your popularity can be taken away. some ppl think popular ppl are spoiled cuz they r popular. that isnt always true
2006-12-29 17:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general someone is declared spoiled when their parents did everything he wanted when he was a child. This person was not taught how things work in life. Even though he is not a child anymore, he continues thinking he is the center of the world. Someone spoiled is often selfish and difficult to live with.
2006-12-29 17:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Claudio B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me someone that is spoiled is someone the does not earn rewards, wanting something and then getting just out of want, to me is spoiled. I believe you need to earn what you want, that way it means something to you. Sure it's nice to receive things every once in a while but to just get what you want. Not good, that's spoiled. Do you have everything you could want and got them just by saying... "I want that"? If you do, you are spoiled. If you have everything you want, but worked for those things, your not spoiled. Either way, I hope you are a happy person, love your life!
2006-12-29 17:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spare the rod spoil the child its in proverbs some where anyway i don't know you but you sound like you could be a decent gall alls i know is that being well of does not mean your void of morals or poverty god gave you what you have people always think its easie to have alot of $ i when to a school that was #1 in the us a year before i went their i met people were loaded OK i learned that if i would have met alot of them outside of school i would have never guessed in a million yearsthey were rich or how much they valued good morals and true friends cause they felt pressure to hold up a good image(I'm poor and black) i respected them so much i wouldn't take $ from them that they practicable threw at me i still wouldnt take it (godliness's with contentment is great gain bible ) i think that's why to this day i don't resent people with big $ i thank god for what i learned try to relax i don't see the average American felling bad cause they have running water electricity warm housing and good food ect you problem is with god OK he gave you what you have don'tapologize for that now ask him for peace you can buy that but like i said dont appologize cause "your problem isn't real?" now is it"---------"its all in your head
2006-12-29 17:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by will pray 4 you disleic 15 wpmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spoiled
A adjective
1 bad, spoiled, spoilt
(of foodstuffs) not in an edible or usable condition; "bad meat"; "a refrigerator full of spoilt food"
2 spoiled, spoilt
having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"
3 coddled, pampered, spoiled
treated with excessive indulgence; "pampered from earliest childhood, he believed the world had been invented for his entertainment"
2006-12-29 17:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Olivia♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are very wealthy, well i would have to say maybe your not spoiled your just wealthy getting everything you want since you have money. Don't listen to people like that. Their jealous of you because they cannot afford it and they might just have to deal with it. You might be spoiled and you might now. Just listen to your heart.
2006-12-29 17:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real definition of spoiled is to be teeming with many gifts usually having to do with physical properties. If you are called spoiled, you get many great gifts.
2006-12-29 17:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not what they call you; it's what you answer to.
there will always be somone who will define you with one word. if they don't know you that well and you don't owe them anything, let them say what they want. As long as you appreciate what you receive because your family has means and you are a good person, don't worry about it. They are only words unless they're true.
2006-12-29 17:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋