I'm bi and 19 years old, I have a crush on my best friend. I want to have phisical relationship with him. How should I ask?
I am bi, and I think he is straight.
We have been best friends over 2 years, and we have had a lot of sleepovers. We wrestle sometimes for fun (caz we are in wrestlin team) and I often touch his c0ck and also he touches my c0ck too. We sleep together when we have sleepovers too. I dont think he knows I am bi, but I really want to have sex with him. However, I am scared if he rejects it. What will be the best way to ask or act him to have sex?
And I care about our friendship and I want us to be best friends forever.
I am not saying I want to have sexual relationship because I want to fcuk someone. I just really love him so much and I want to expand our relationship into a sexual way.
And I am 100% sure I can trust him, and he trusts me.
Thank you for reading this question, I want to know the ways to ask and do. I think I am thinking in a badway... but Help Me!
2006-12-29 16:47:27 · 22 answers · asked by jacksmith225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You say you often touch his penis then do one thing try holding it firmly & try to shake it see his reaction if he gives no response try to kiss it or try to give a bj. If he response positively you can go ahead for sex as you please.
2006-12-29 16:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that this is a pretty risky situation you are in! If you never let him know how you feel then you will become deprived and begin to feel uncomfortable with him just being friends with you. If you tell him how you feel and he doesn't see you in the same way, your friendship between one another may be ruined or just become extremely uncomfortable. But on the other hand, if he sees you more than a friend, he might just be too shy to admit it. If this is the case, one of you should say something sooner or later. I recon you should confront him with the issue, but if you are too shy you could also bring it up in a text message or something less upfront. So technically you have a 1 out of 3 chance that you will get lucky ha ha! If worse comes to worst then you should just give it time and the problem will most probably be forgotten and then you can both move on. Hopefully, for your sake, I hope it all goes well and he feels the same way about you! I hope that this has helped you xo love Karla
2006-12-29 17:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all , i am not bi but i have a best friend that ive had for several yrs , we decided at one point that if we were ever single at the same time that we would go out and see if it would work , we have so much in common and been best frineds for 17 yrs. we love each other , respect each other and trust each other with our lives, we went out for 6 weeks and our friendship has not been the same since. He told me that he couldnt love me the way I have him for yrs but yet we still respect and trust one another but we crossed that line and it changed everything~
I would highly suggest that you just try to put your feelings aside and especially if he is not bi you may ruin your friendship permanetely if you hit on him . you may want to try askin him first how he would feel if he had a friend and he found out he was bi what would he do ? then see what his reaction would be if it wouldnt change then you would know what to do from there either tell him how you feel or ignore the subject and forget it ~ Anyway good luck to you
2006-12-29 16:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by faith_1969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are bi..and possibly gay, but that's not the point. If you wrestle with a guy and he wrestles and likes to have sleepovers with you, and there are no hot girls or alchol or elicit drugs involved I would say yes either he is or you are both bi or gay. Being a hetro guy and knowing a lot of gays and lesbians I would say your best bet would be to get him fucked up...honestly. Get him thrashed and make remarks, but not passes, then get a little more serious. You'll either get to a point with him to where he shuns you off or wants to bang you...either way you can defend yourself by saying you were wasted.
2006-12-29 16:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by james_spader_jr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel. But get ready for whatever happens. He may actually really love you too. OR he might tell you to leave him alone forever. I had a crush on my best friend and I told her, she got really grossed out and never talked to me.
I think a better way to go about this, is start off by telling him that you're BI. then take it from there. Don't rush into telling him you want to screw him, that might scare him off. Good luck....
2006-12-29 16:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by iamsoboredandtired 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first try an figure it out how he could react about this
i mean ask him about what he things about gay relationships
if he shows any positive sign then to u no need to hurry after all u don't want to ruined Ur friendship with him right so just keep giving him hints about how u feel about him n while doing wrestle or sleeping on bed pretend t be kidding show Ur feelings to him if he gets involve in it then there r chances u can o together or
if he shows red signal better back off boy
best of luck
god bless you
2006-12-29 20:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 04:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say anything at all. i know that may not be the answer you are looking for, but let me explain. if you should say anything to him about crushing on him, he may be creeped out and not want to be your friend at all. he may ignore and make fun of you even. there is a girl at my school who is bi. she was in the same situation with her best friend, and she has not said anything to her. i talked to her best friend and she said that if the girl had liked her that would freak her out. you said you 'think' he is straight. maybe you should casually ask him. say "do you think me being bi affects our friendship? youre straight right?" then if he says he thinks he might be bi, kiss him on the cheek and ask him if he felt anything at all. if he says yes, then youre on!! but if he says he IS BI, then you should tell him how you feel. he may be more understanding. hope that helps.
2006-12-29 16:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by colby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(I got this from some other answers)
Start out telling him you're bi. See if he's okay with it. If he's not, stop there, it's probably already over. Sorry. If he is, lead into your crush on him.
Be ready for ANYTHING, and go in expecting the worst, but trying for the best.
Good luck!!!
2006-12-29 16:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by LSN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my suggestion to you would be just ask.. if you are already having sleepovers and wrestle around and have already touched each other.. then there is a possiblility that he is also bi.
2006-12-29 16:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by D and R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off this wasnt a good question to ask.....i know you have feelings for him but if hes straight he will be freaked by the idea and run off i kno if one of my girl friends told me they wanted to have sex with me i would def. be freaked and probably would stop talking to them so you might wanna back off and just stay friends.....its either that or no friendship at all
2006-12-29 16:51:25 · answer #11 · answered by teenage_drama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋