I'm bi and 19 years old, I have a crush on my best friend. I want to have phisical relationship with him. How should I ask?
I am bi, and I think he is straight.
We have been best friends over 2 years, and we have had a lot of sleepovers. We wrestle sometimes for fun (caz we are in wrestlin team) and I often touch his c0ck and also he touches my c0ck too. We sleep together when we have sleepovers too. I dont think he knows I am bi, but I really want to have sex with him. However, I am scared if he rejects it. What will be the best way to ask or act him to have sex?
And I care about our friendship and I want us to be best friends forever.
I am not saying I want to have sexual relationship because I want to fcuk someone. I just really lve him so much and I want to expand our relationship into a sexual way.
And I am 100% sure I can trust him, and he trusts me.
Thank you for reading this question, I want to know the ways to ask and do. I think I am thinking in a badway... but Help Me!
2006-12-29 16:45:06 · 12 answers · asked by jacksmith225 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Start by mentioning your bisexuality... If he seems okay with that, try asking, maybe jokingly, if he wants to try sex. If he acts curious or interested, go for it. If he seems disinterested, or say "No way" or something like that, tuck your fantasies away, and continue to value the friendship.
2006-12-29 16:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_sorceress_169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are in a mess. well the thing is if you want to be friends with him for the rest of your life any type of physical/sexual relationship that you have may jepordize that. that always seems to happen. when you become intimate with a friend and something happens to that relationship, then most of the time the friendship is over. this was not true for me and my ex-boyfriend. we were friends first than we got together twice and broke up twice. but to this day we are still like brothers. he is my best friend. but if you still want to go through with this then the best way for you to go about this is to test the waters first and see how he racts to the idea. try talking to him about a fictional cousin and telling him that he is bi and has gotten together with his best friend and you think it's cool. see what he says and maybe ask him if that happened to him what he would do. it is deceitful but you are in a sticky situation. you can change it around a little and make it the way you feel more comfortable with it. like instead of a fic. cousin maybe an article you read or something like that. hope everything works out and ya'll get together.
2006-12-29 17:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember sex and lust doesn't create love, and if he's straight he might want to discontinue the closeness, maybe even the friendship. It might seem like such a cliche to say trust your gut, but that's really all I can tell you. He might even feel the same way about you...
2006-12-29 16:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Voodoo Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a tough situation. figure out what you really want from him. i would say continue with the friendship and be open with him about your sexuality. because if there's more going on between the two of you, then it may turn into love or something. just be carefull on what you say to him as he may not be into guys and you'll loose alot of your friendship.
2006-12-29 17:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sound so fetish, anyway, from what u tell I think he´s open to the idea even if you didn't say anything about it, just wait for the right moment and tell him about your feelings and then pops your question, politely of course, you'll never know for sure if he spins you to the floor
2006-12-30 04:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by apernett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like Roxie's answer.
No matter what the outcome, after you talk to your friend about this, things will be different between the two of you. But if you're truly friends, you have to tell him that you're bisexual, anyway, because that's what friends do--they're honest with each other.
2006-12-29 17:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's straight, you are beholden to not pursuing it with him. That's just selfishness on your part.
If you suspect he may be bi or gay, then you can talk about it with him - but if you're wrong you run the risk of upsetting your friendship.
2006-12-30 01:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk with him and try to make out with him. Then take it from there =O
If things go bad then you can always blame it on the beer or pull the I don't remember card. =X
2006-12-29 22:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....thats a gay guys fantasy....two wrestlers wrestling and having sleepovers..and touching each other....and are straight acting...theres something fishy in here.....
2006-12-29 16:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by calidude5592000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance to start feeling up on u. Then at the sleepover tell him that you need to tell him something in private sip up the sleeping bag and rip his clathes off and u know wat else
2006-12-30 02:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋