I accidently spilled an urn with a family members ashes in my front yard..I tried to scrap up as much as possible but was not able to get all of it up. I am sure some of "Aunt Sally" was scattered into my front lawn..
2006-12-29 16:44:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
wow.. tough one.. Just say someone else did it dont blame it on someone, just say someone must of vandelized it
2006-12-29 16:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Keep Miley Smiley Incorperated 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually a plastic bag is inside the urn. Most places put 'Aunt Sally" in a plastic bag (my husbands Grandfather was in a ziplock). You took up what you could leave it at that. I think it would be traumatic for others to learn about the yard incident. Now she will forever be a part of your home. No harm was really done in the end, not like she is really there anymore.
I can't help but think this is a joke, if it's not I apologize. My husbands Grandfather was divided up, some in Bridgeport, CA. A little more in Yosemite. Then there were cousins asking for some. And that is NOT a joke.
2006-12-29 16:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would not say anything unless someone notices, but in most cases when someone is creamated they are inside a unopened bag, and to even think of putting fireplace ashes or bbq ashes in to replace, thats a huge NO NO, first off a humans ashes are much different and more coarse then those of a fire. Shame on you all for suggesting such a horrible replacement to someones loved one.
2006-12-29 16:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you wanted to set Aunt Sally free, so you had a memorial service in your front yard and spread the ashes.
OR
You can go clean out the bbq grill and fill the urn back up and no one will know the difference. (Make sure to pick out those little pieces of aluminum foil from the grill though).
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2006-12-29 16:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by maamu 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for laughing. What was Aunt Sally doing outside anyway? She was supposed to stay inside. Is this a joke? It must be a joke? Poor Aunt Sally. Do not tell anyone. I am honestly trying hard not to laugh. Really.
2006-12-29 17:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gee, this would be a no longer basic difficulty. i think of that the terrific element to do is to be sincere and confirm you tell the family members what got here approximately. as much as you dread their reactions, it particularly is extra constructive than permitting them to discover out some opposite direction. they're going to rejoice with the honesty and that they are extra probably to appreciate how sorry you're. bear in strategies additionally which you're no longer on my own in making this form of mistake. i've got learn somebody else having the same element take place. in basic terms say sorry and supply to assist freshen up.
2016-12-15 11:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lot of ashes and add to the urn that's something u cant explain
2006-12-29 16:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
just explain the truth about what actually happened
2006-12-29 16:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a fireplace in the house, you won't have to explain!
2006-12-29 16:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
haha don't know whether to believe that or not haha
don't tell them they will never know hahah
2006-12-29 16:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋