I kissed the boy i used to talk to because my boyfriend has never spent time wit me since we got together weve been going out now for a week and he's never there. the boy i used to talk to makes me feel somewhat good about doing my boyfreind wrong what should i do?
2006-12-29 16:40:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Break up with your boyfriend and start seeing the other guy.
2006-12-29 16:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some scruples' girl! How would you feel if the lips were on the other girl? You know what I mean?. If you like this guy you are seeing now, then you shouldn't be calling this otherr guy your "BF" and kissin' old faithful! If you want to be respected, you need to GIVE respect. Tell the "bf" that you don't feel for him like a "gf" should, so you need to break up because you don't want to keep him on the fly! There is nothing to be gained by doing someone wrong, except a reputation that you can't be trusted! Do you want to be known as loose lips lucy???? Just remember, what comes around goes around, ALWAYS. save yourself from being the blunt of jokes, and the one on the recieving end of the somebody done somebody wrong song. RESPECT YOURSELF and the guy. Friends can be cruel when they find out another friend has been played for a fool.Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
2006-12-29 16:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is doing you wrong why stay with him? If this other guy is treating you so much better why not dump your boyfriend and stay with him. Do you like being with someone who never spends any time with you? Don't you want some guy who cares about you and is concerned for you? Don't you want some guy who is fun to be around and makes you feel good?
2006-12-29 16:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your first mind! Tell your boyfriend that things are not working out and get with the other guy. I was in that situation a month ago, and I didn't tell my boyfriend and ended up getting caught. Not with kissing him (even though I did), but for him calling my phone and my boyfriend spoke with him. Things got ugly after that, because the goofy rat me out and I ended up with a busted lip and bloody nose! That's real.
2006-12-29 16:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mesha 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to show your boyfriend that he isn't paying enough attention to you? If you really care about this other guy more than your current boyfriend, I would say break up with your boyfriend. If your boyfriend ain't doing what he should, than you shouldn't have to worry about stuff like this. Just tell him what you think of him (the boyfriend) and let him decide how he is going to fix it.
2006-12-29 16:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Alphamale626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for this other guy, then dump your boyfriend especially if your boyfriend is being faithful to him. He would want to know instead of being lied to and having a relationship that wouldnt work. Tell him the truth and leave him. Break you with your boyfriend if you have no feelings for him and go for the other guy.
2006-12-29 16:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hellz no, it is a form of cheating. in the event that they kiss yet another boy it is so incorrect! in the event that they're appropriate fo direction it is okay, and in the event that they have been pals perpetually and that they kiss on the cheek it is okay too, yet while it is an EX or basically yet another boy in maximum cases, it is defiantly no longer o.k. to do this.
2016-12-31 06:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend doesn't know what it means to be a boyfriend. His loss.
On the other hand, respect your boyfriend; try talking to him. And don't kiss other guys, you aren't "going out with," even if they do talk nice.
2006-12-29 16:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by shawnzmojo102 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats flucked up, you dont date someone, and then go behind there back and kiss another guy. its really messed up, you shouldnt even have kissed the guy untill you were single, cuz now not only does your bf have to go through the pain of you leaving him but he also has to face the fact you cheated on him. just leave him, the sooner you do it the better, dont want to hurt him more than you already have
2006-12-29 16:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay i had the same problem over the summer.....
well your boyfriend screwed up and didnt spend time with you....you found someone else who makes you feel good about yourself lose the boyfriend and either be friends with benefits (non-sexual) with your guy friend or go out with him.
in the end it was your boyfriends loss anyway =] GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-29 16:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by teenage_drama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋