my friend megan is always finding an excuse to be around my brother! i hate it! i always like try to talk to her about something else to get her away from him. we call him tofu cuz he still haz lots of baby fat on his cheeks, and so she pokes him in the cheeks. i always feel uncomfortable cuz my bro doesnt kno this so he like will be all nice to her like he knos, but really doesn't. and i think it would be horrible if megan told him that she liked him. he doesn't "like" her but he thinks shes really nice,i want him to stay away from her but i dont kno what to do!!!
ADVICE PLZ!!!
2006-12-29 16:34:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH AND HES 8 AND MEGANS 11
plz help im really worried
and im not trying to but into his life
2006-12-29 16:46:47 · update #1
well when she trys to get around him tell her lets go some where else if she does'nt then tell her to leave or you just leave tell her to do whatever she wants then next time know she not coming over again so hope it works out for you.
2006-12-29 16:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by oc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i kno u kno that ur bro doesn't like her or something like that but telling her how u feel about this might be the wrong thing cause ur butting in and from experience DO NOT SAY A THING let it run its course and u kinda sound a lil jealous not to be mean but thats kinda how i sounded when i said something either way MY BEST ADVICE would be just don't say anthing let things happen please i had a friend who was so stupid she asked a guy to a dance that i kno didn't like her because of the fact he didn't respond to her right away it toke him like a week so i would just leave it alone u might want to give hints but don't anything it better when ppl make there own mistakes then they learn.
2006-12-30 00:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by hot italian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to Megan that you need to make a friendship pact, set some ground rules. For instance,I wish you'd just ignore my brother when you are with me because it's really getting on my nerves! and I won't flirt with your cousin, friend, whatever....just come up with an equal ground, and let her know how you feel!
If that won't be feasible, then tell your brother that Megan's only being nice to you because she HAS to! Well, you know your brother, you'd know what to tell him to be sure he wont want anything to do with her, right? but I still feel that you should speak to your friend first, if she valuse your friendship, she'll back off of the baby bro!
2006-12-30 00:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch someone is being greedy. Your friend can hang out with who she wants to hang out with. Girl, it's kind of your decision. I don't like to insult people I don't know (I hope I am not insulting you) but maybe you should just let it be. When Megan grows up to be famous and your bro ands up jobless you'll think about how your bro could have had a better life.
2006-12-30 00:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Paola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise you to keep your brother away from your g/f. It is also better if you keep an eye on her when she comes to your house so that she must not come in direct contact with your brother. You did not disclose as what is the age of your brother and your friend so that age difference should become stumbling stone in the love of your brother and g/f. It will also be effective if you reprimand your friend as not to make love and try to attract my brother in her love. Darling. this is only one side of the picture. What will you do if your brother loves her and both like each other to such an extent that no advice will work. Under these circumstances it will be better to accept their relationship as good.
2006-12-30 00:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel uncomfortable flirting with your brother. Hopefully she will understand since she's your friend. If she completely blows you off and it starts to piss you off, tell her the truth that your brother doesn't like her like that, and hes just being nice. I know its mean and thats why I said do it only if she blows you off, she may get upset but eventually she'll get over it and move onto another guy and your relationship will be fine.
2006-12-30 00:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt try to pick her boyfriends for her, if she wants to like your brother let her its her life and she will find out whats going on. and how do you know your brother doesnt like her quite trying to control the relationship i hate people like that get your own life!
2006-12-30 00:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to like my bff twin brother she kind of got used to it but it was still kinda weird for her but i dont like him anymore and our friendship is better
2006-12-30 00:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out who likes your friend megan tell him to askher out & she should go out with him & leave your brother alone. or tell your brother 2 get a girl friend & she should leave him alone.lol
2006-12-30 00:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by alishokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you think she likes him and that you would perfer that he would try to stay away from herbut you should also ask him that you don't want him to confront her on this and ask megan if she dose like him.
2006-12-30 00:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by cat-o-doom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋