I have been with my fiancee for a while. Recently, I have taken an interest in the panties that she wears (usually the really pretty, silky ones from victorias secret). I'm so curious to try them on as part of our bedroom activities. I'm totally straight and have no desire to be a woman or anything like that (nor do I want to go around wearing them all day long). Its just that the idea of trying on something of hers thats so intimate and forbidden really excites me. How do I approach her about it? If shes not sure about it or opposed to it, how do I get her to accept it? Please help because its something I really really want to do and share with her (hopefully without freaking her out). Thanks.
2006-12-29 16:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just tell her exactly like you told us. She might be a little weirded out at first...but accepting. Just go for it.
2006-12-29 16:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by felis_filia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby don't do it! You are going to scare her. Maby you should discuss alternative ways of being intimate with her. Make sure it's casual. You can't make her open to an idea that she doesn't like. Personally seeing my fiancee with a pair of my panties on would make me reevaluate his sexuality and the future of our relationship. The decision is yours. Good luck
2006-12-29 16:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by sincere_woman25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not suggest her trying hers on, unless she is very large so that they would fit or you are slim enough.. or some combination.
To start out neutrally, you should ask if there is a silky pair she wouldn't mind using on you as part of foreplay you could then suggest from there, if she seemed okay with it.
2006-12-29 16:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are engaged to be married, but you cannot discuss fantasies with her?
Get the ring back, you're not ready for a real relationship.
2006-12-29 16:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably will freak her out-if I were you I'd keep it to myself. Also, you would probably tear or stretch out her (expensive) V.S. panties by trying them on. If you really HAVE to do it, buy your own and try 'em out on your own.
2006-12-29 16:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit her down and tell her..just like you just did...explain it like you did here. she might be weirded out at first..but part of being married and loving each other is being able to communicate
2006-12-29 16:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm just ask her how she would feel about it. I'm sure she won't care.... she might think it's funny and tease ya but that can be y'all's little secret... :o)
2006-12-29 16:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Missledtngirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
far out man. that makes for great sex if you are into that kinda stuff. good luck ha ha. TELL HER.
2006-12-29 16:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by kiakaha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask, you'll never know!
2006-12-29 16:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋