2006-12-29 15:26:38 · 18 answers · asked by mamabear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are just a sick pervert who is not mature enough to understand what Marriage is. Don't try and justify you incest relationship.
2006-12-30 04:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, I know what you MEAN, but your grammar makes it look weird, which several others have chosen to take a whack at, apparently!
Short answer: if getting married ruins your passion, you were either too young or too foolish to GET married. Any extended relationship requires work and watering to function well. As Spider Robinson once put it "They said marriage was hard work, but they made it seem as if that was a BAD thing." Its not at all, if you are both close to being on the same page. If you can't laugh and get past the occasional bad bump or day that just went wrong, passion has no chance in the long run. If you have a solid friendship to begin with, marriage ought to bring that to the next level, not crater it. If its reached a point where you feel as if you are in bed with a relative, start thinking about having some fun and recapture part of what led the two of you there to begin with. Very little is really all that "ruined" and that feeling doesn't have to be permanent. Of course, if you are married to an alcoholic or a doofus who fooled you long enough to get it rolling, yes, you have a real problem. Short of that, go to a movie, have a hot dog and see if a few giggles don't strike a few sparks again. However, pick a cartoon or something surreal like "Spider-Man;" don't make it a zombie movie or Snakes ON A Plane. WRONG MESSAGE with those, hehehehe.....
2006-12-29 23:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by gamerathon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people tend to take their spouses for granted. You have to keep the spark alive by still dating after the wedding. You get stuck in the comfort zone and then things can go to hell in a hand basket. especially after you have kids. Kids tend to take up most of your time. If you have to schedule alone time do it. Maybe ask if someone can take the kids every 3rd Saturday of the month so you can be alone and then take advantage of it. Shower together and wash each other, Go out to a movie and hold hands. You need to work at intimacy, or else it fades away..............
2006-12-29 23:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mamabear are you saying their is some kind of incest going on in your relatives house. LOL. I think that it's not marriage that ruins passion but the people in the marriage getting to lazy. Passion has to be fueled, or it will DIE!!!That can happen to any relationship , Married or not.
2006-12-29 23:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage Doesn't ruin the passion, We DO!! You have to always try new things, otherwise you will get bored!! Be open minded!! watch and learn new techniques, then practice them, toys, what ever it takes, be curious about your lovers fantasies.Don't be shy!! after all, your doing it with the one you chose to be with for the rest of your life.
2006-12-29 23:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage does not kill passion. You had killed the passion in your marriage by taking the husband of your daugther to bed. Now, When the LUST end with your son in law, to whom will you look for? Your OWN SON?
I think you are a sick lady and you need therapy.
2006-12-30 00:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by getting_a_new_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are'nt honest about who they are when they are dating. They try to fit what the other person wants them to be, Then when their real self comes out, they don't really have much in common. Skip the relative part though. That just makes things worse.
2006-12-29 23:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Carman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still deeply love my wife after these years.
Two kids in successive years take away from the time we were used to having but marriage requires work. Don't take anything for granted in marriage. It requires sacrifice and showing the love and devotion to each other.
Now the time is quality, not quantity. Quantity provided the children, now the children provide the need for quality.
2006-12-29 23:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way would I end up with a relative, passion or no passion, that is not even right
2006-12-29 23:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by bobs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so what exactly is the question? I answered your question about your daughters husband. So it has gone that far....I don't even know what to say! I hope Papa Bear and Baby Bear don't find out! You know it sounds like you have some self esteem problems..well, you have some problems that is for sure.
2006-12-29 23:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Debcee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marrige doesn't ruin it. The married couple ruin it by allowing the passion to die.
2006-12-29 23:58:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋