My friend and I made plans for New years Eve then she backs out the last minute with this crap. I am MAD!
2006-12-29 15:21:01 · 3 answers · asked by mccamel1666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is her email to me:Hey.... really sorry bout not being able to go. I was just asked this afternoon to go and my friend needs help with the baby on the way down to IN.... i never get to see my fam down there so this is like my only chance to go as well. i do feel bad, and i didnt purposely back out or anything. but like i said he needed help w/ the baby on the way down and he knew i wanted to be contacted when he was going down there again. i just got asked this afternoon. so i apologize to all of u in advance. i will be leaving tonite and he said we're comin back monday (he's driving so theres not much i can do bout that or i'd come back sunday) BUT if we come back early i will be sure to call you or courtney! i promise!!
im really sorry i was lookin forward to the party... but i promise we will have to party soon!! one of these upcoming weekends!! seriously!! we will have to plan something...
2006-12-29 15:21:30 · update #1
but i promise we will have to party soon!! one of these upcoming weekends!! seriously!! we will have to plan something...
anyway i have to go and finish some last minute things b4 i go.... i will miss u guys tons but feel free to call for new years or whatever. if u still go to the party have fun & be safe!!!!!!!!!! happy freakin new year! and tell steph happy bday/happy new year for me. thanx!! cya later....
2006-12-29 15:21:59 · update #2
p.s. I DONT WANT YOU TO BE MAD AT ME!!!!!!!!!!... its NOT worth getting pissed about. i didnt do it to piss no1 off. i never back out of anything unless im really sick or im working. its not like we cant party when i get back!! and i said i was sorry i dont know what else 2say. neway i explained everything in the beginning of this email. i didnt say "oh im gonna leave town and ditch my friends"... just cuz othr ppl may have done it doesnt mean im that way. i wouldnt intentionally hurt u or my other friends/family. at least im tellin u in advance instead of waitin til an hour b4 the party. THAT would be some crap.... i said im sorry and i want to plan somethin one of these upcoming weekends. it would mean alot to me if you'd understand and not be mad instead of blowing things out of proportion and think that i did it on purpose to piss u off...
2006-12-29 15:22:24 · update #3
Im just very disappointed anytime we have big plans like this "something comes up" and she had to back out. So I find it funny, that once a again this happened. So i dk what to believe.
2006-12-29 16:04:58 · update #4
Give her a chance to plan something; she sounds sincere.
2007-01-01 14:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
It seems that your friend is trying her best to apologize to you and the rest for not being able to attend the New Years Eve plans that you all made.
It isn't the end of the world and you guys can still party without her there isn't a reason to be mad at her now is it? She wants help with a family member.
So listen put your big girl panties on deal with the fact that your friend isn't going BUT.. you all will still have a good time!!
Dont ruin a good friendship over something as petty as this.. I'm sure after you finish steaming over what you call crap, you'll see that the party is still going to be rocking. Oh! What should you do?
Go on pick out your outfit for the party and get ready to have yourself a blast girl!!
Happy New Year!!
2006-12-29 23:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I understand that you are mad, but your friend is right, she is telling you with advance and she is saying she is sorry...
You have to try to understand, these days people are supose to spend them with thier family, and that's all she wants to do, spend some time with a family that she hasn't seem for a long time....
So, if you really are her friend, you have to understand, as she said on the email, there will be a lot of time to party with her, but this opportunity to spend time with her family is not something that she can do all the time... SO, try to be undersatnding with her, call her and tell her that you are not mad and that it is ok , that you understand, that way she will leave more relaxed and not thinking that you are mad at her...
Good Luck and Happy New Year!
2006-12-29 23:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by sweet-girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋