2006-12-29 15:18:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
NO - but a lot of dad's do this and it is not right!@~
2006-12-29 15:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by nswblue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're genuinely suitable on your determination. Your son will improve up continually feeling rejected. I have been given caught between my be sure's divorce and my father merely to cancel on us for all time. i became 7 and that i'm no longer able to tell you techniques confusing it became to get with the aid of those couple of years. it relatively is unquestionably undesirable. whilst this concern comes up between my acquaintances (those days split from their toddler's father), I continually tell them the comparable subject: because of the fact I lived with the aid of it, I surely experience it would have been extra helpful to no longer see him in any respect than to have the thoughts of being enable down, rejected, and undesirable (despite if it wasn't that generally. He'd do it approximately as quickly as a month, he became think to be sure me very Sunday). yet that when a month he ignored, made the different 3 Sundays valueless because of the fact he became on no account real to his be conscious. good success with the region. whilst your son is the right age to comprehend the kind of pop he has, it relatively is beneficial to describe it to him, so he won't experience such as you took his father away. If his father relatively needs to be sure him, such as you stated, he will detect a ability with the aid of courtroom for visitation rights. "the place there's a will, there's a manner" It he manages to cut back to rubble his visitation rights, you could then have them bumped off for good. here is to hoping each and every thing works out to your loved ones.
2016-11-25 00:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally, yes...a middle person can be involved in pick ups and drop off for custody of visitions. Sometimes it can help easy the tension of an ackward situation. I really should be pickups and drop offs between the mother and father and each parent needs to learn to be kind to each other in front of their kids but that its a hard one to adapt to so some time might be needed by having a middle person help with schedules at first.
2006-12-29 15:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not in my book. I boy really needs his father. My two nephews are in this situation where when they have their weekends with thier father, and he doesnt act like he cares and just watches TV. There is no quality time. They are really getting screwed up. The repercussions of this is severe. If it is one time that would be fine, but everytime, NO WAY. Let me ask you this? Why would you want to ship him off somewhere else? Do you love him?
2006-12-29 15:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by faith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, boys spending time with their fathers mean alot. His father should be teaching him how to be a man. Your son will remember this when he is older and feel neglected by his father.Sometimes, men still don't know how to take care of their own responsibilities and depend on mom.
2006-12-29 15:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Visiting grandparents is great, but having the grandparents take your place as the parent is not great. Children need to have you as the roll model and the grandparents as the people the can go to when they need another person who loves them. A child holds their dad more accountable for their love.
2006-12-29 15:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by curious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's a crappy dad then yes, by all means drop the kid off with someone who's a better influence and who they'll probably have a better time with.
2006-12-29 15:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You only have a kid for two days, maybe some time with gramma's okay, but definitely not the whole time. Spend time with your kids - they're the ones who will support you when you're old....
2006-12-29 17:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Palmyrita 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He can, but thats kinda corny if you mean the whole weekend
2006-12-29 15:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by High? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No..then what's the point of picking up the kid?
2006-12-29 15:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by piratesandstars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds kinda messed up to me but i don't know the circumstances so i guess so..
2006-12-29 15:21:10 · answer #11 · answered by angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋