If someone only likes gay people is that normal? I mean gay people couldn't like them back because there gay right?....I just want some opinions.....
ps. specifically gay boys
2006-12-29 15:17:32 · 12 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I might be completely missing the point here, but if you are a girl and you only like gay boys, maybe you like them because you know it can´t go anywhere. Maybe the girl has some unresolved issues with previous boyfriends or other male figures in her life and is looking for guys who don´t have those qualities but the extreme opposite.
2006-12-29 15:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by No se 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. There are many reasons why a straight woman might feel a sole attraction to gay males, or a straight man might feel a sole attraction to lesbian women. Sometimes it might be about their aesthetic, style, look, behavior, mannerisms, speech, lifestyle, etc., etc.. Lots of women seem to fall in love with gay men because of their (stereotypical) sweetness, good sense of dress, etc., etc.. More oftentimes it can be because their homosexuality is attractive to the person- many men enjoy the idea of women together, and hence find lesbians attractive, and the same goes for some women liking the idea of gay men. Or it could be something else propelling the desires, but the thing is, it happens to quite a few people.
It is a problem, however, when the person starts to delude themselves into thinking relationships are possible. Gay men do not, as a rule, sleep with or have romantic relationships with women, and to hope for otherwise is pointless. That doesn't mean that all hope is lost- you can seek out bisexuals (if that does it for you, of course), men who present a gay image but are in fact straight (like metrosexuals or effeminate men), etc., etc.. As long as you keep a good sense of reality and understanding about your desires, go ahead and have them!
2006-12-29 19:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't anything particular about the guys that you like.. there is no way to tell whether a person is gay or not unless they actually tell you..
but if you all of a sudden take a liking to guys once you find out they are gay, then i think this is a sign that you are uncomfortable around guys who could potentially be interested in you romantically or sexually..
sounds like you are more confortable with friends who you know will not put the moves on you romantically or sexually.
bottom line, if you don't like guys, then maybe you are lesbian.. and if that's the case, then there's nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-29 15:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean like as in being attracted to them, yeah that's normally. I know a lot of straight girls that have fallen for gay guys at one point or another. Gay people fall for straight people too, it just happens on its own.
2006-12-29 15:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, they don't dislike you they just feel like ur gonna be rude to them because they are gay. That's the only reason why but if you show them that you think it's okay then they'll be more nice to you.
I love gay boys....their awesome. Boyxboy love is sexy! I don't care what anyone says...
I'm christian and I believe in god and everything but i enjoy boys making out with other boys. It's soo hott
2006-12-29 15:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experiance that women who habitually fall for gay boys have low self esteem. They choose gay men as friends because they enjoy being appreciated as people and don't have to fear them... it is easy for friendship and flattery to turn to love, especially when you're not used to getting it. Then when you get shot down, you can always pump yourself up by saying "it's not me, he's just gay", instead of having to deal with real rejection.
Is it normal? I dunno, sure has happened to quite a few people I know. But fundamentally, it is not healthy to only fall for people who can never give us what we need.
2006-12-29 15:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am gay and I like lots of people. I only discriminate against bigots and closed minded hateful people.
2006-12-29 15:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 07:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly normal for a str8 girl to like gay guys. and there alot of gay people (girls and guys), who like str8 people. the thing is some are so attracted to what they can't have. i have that affliction. i am really turned on by str8 guys. i like gay guys too, but str8 ones pose more of a challenge. but beware of being rude. you don't want to offend someome.
2006-12-29 16:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
homo: meaning the same as, alike
gay:someone who likes their own sex
if you are a male, and like a gay female, i believe you are considered bisexual
2006-12-29 16:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋