We stay home during the holidays. His best friend is having a party for New Years and he doesn't want to go. Boring!! He plays pokerstars all day & night. BORING!!!
2006-12-29 15:17:14 · 22 answers · asked by HLOKTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get dressed up and go to his best friends party. lets see how long he will stay at home then.
2006-12-29 15:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what pokerstars is but if it's online, accidentally get the internet shut off. If it's on TV, accidentally cut the main cable. I could go on but you probably get the point.
2006-12-29 15:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by spag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is on the brink of a gambling addiction. I would shut off his computer and tell him hes going whether he likes it or not. You will probably need to be a bit forceful, but it may help. Or, you could ask him what the real problem is and why he doesnt want to go out. Or better yet if he dont want to go, go by yourself and have fun!
2006-12-29 15:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by CherryRed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to make it fun, turn down the lights,put candles all around, play some soft music,(dance) candle light dinner,followed by a bath for two, I wonder whats next.Happy New Year, breakfast in bed.
2006-12-29 15:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready and ask if he is going. He is stuck in a rut. Motivate him to start doing other stuff and make it a habit to stay doing things. Does he work to much or take pain killers. These are things that also cause you to not want to do much.
2006-12-29 15:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I do is I try to get him in the bedroom and bring on the fun myself! We are a couple who likes to be home too. I have learned to give massages, just keep myself busy while entertaining him too! It usually works!
2006-12-29 15:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by dezzer85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he chooses to stay home, does not mean that you have to. Go to the party...he'll get the picture eventually. Good luck
2006-12-29 15:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Debcee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband how you feel. Tell him you feel like you're getting into a rut and that marriage is like a garden, if you don't tend to it, it will shrivel up and die. Gardens need sunlight, tending, rain, and marriages need time alone together, going out and trying something new and adventurous. Good luck.
2006-12-29 15:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find youself a young stud to sex up. Guys are really horny, if you give them a shot they'll take it. The excitement you get out of it will make you forget all abou how dull your husband is.
2006-12-29 15:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make the plans for the entertainment
2006-12-30 10:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by ben c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋