why do so many people assume they are the one doing wrong? Your advice isn't helping if you assume the person asking is in the wrong. More often than not they're asking because they're the victim.
2006-12-29 15:16:15 · 18 answers · asked by uknowme 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I understand now there isn't much intelligent life on here. The question is clear. To ask a question w/out telling you what position the questioner is in is to get an objective opinion. Apparently, the morons here don't know what obective is because you can't answer a simple question.
2006-12-29 15:28:58 · update #1
See you already determined why I'm asking. I read a question where everyone called the questioner an idiot when she asked why if it's wrong to e-mail an ex. She had to explain it was her bf because you morons can't answer a simple yes or no. My question is not vague it's simple and clear cut. The spelling is correct and the grammar is correct you *uckin morons.
2006-12-29 15:32:16 · update #2
I agree. I'll be the first to admit that I post joke responses on here but I try not to judge other people when they are asking a legitimate question. I think there are a lot of angry people on here and this is the only way they can vent their frustration without actually having to confront anyone. It is really the cowards way out and I think they know that deep down.
Keep asking, just develop a thicker skin and be prepared to weed out 10 idiots for every good answer. Oh, and be prepared to ignore my jokes too. Most of them are not funny anyway.
2006-12-29 15:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by qmstr725 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like to point fingers. With many situations it isn't always Victim/Perpetrator. It is quite often Very wrong/Closer to being right.
Keep your head up. Realize though, you are asking for opinions from total strangers that haven't met you and will never know your complete situation no matter how many details you add to the question. There are some bad apples but many are doing their best to help you out.
2006-12-29 23:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by On the upside 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine that people interpret what is said in different ways or guess what the asker is trying to say when their question isn't clear or full of misspellings or they simply think from the way the question is asked that the person in not the victim.
Why?
2006-12-29 23:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, like, why do you think you know how i feel when i respond to a question you say like that it hurts my feelings but then you say that they are victims but i don't think that really matters because i feel your pain but i don't like it when you ask questions like that so that's why i get defensive but i think you're really judgemental so that's why i wonder how many other people answer questions like i do because if you consider them to be wrong then they might feel like they need to be angry so that you will understand there are more than one way to look at this so i don't really expect anyone to know what the hell you are talking about.
2006-12-30 02:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by coconutmonkeybank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need there be a victim of some sort? You openly asked a question in any way you want it to be asked, and they openly answered it in any way they wanted you to know what they think the answer would be. c=.
2006-12-30 00:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by InfoDeficient=c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good point. How would you make the difference clear?
2006-12-29 23:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone asks a question, they already know the answer.
The response gives more insight than information.
2006-12-29 23:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by dopeadevil23 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If thought you were right you wouldn't ask the question?? I have no idea when someone asks about there" friends" situation I always think they are always talking about themselves
2006-12-29 23:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by devilsadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES, it is human nature for this to happen. But, you are right, that is not the way it always is.
2006-12-29 23:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should be clear enough in their question to reflect their position.
No-one can read minds!
2006-12-29 23:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by PHOEBE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋