I have heard both. I had a marriage councelor tell me no. But there is a HUGE story behind this, no pun intended. I am 5' 6", average I guess, but very hard. My wife has had a GREAT many Partners unfortunately. When we were seperated for two years, she chose men friends that were 6 foot or more, she is only 5' 1". We seperated because of her adultry, with a 6" 2" man 14 years older than her. I am 13 years older, she is now 33, it started when she was 26. The man marriage councelor told me size doesnt matter, easy for him since at 5' 7" he is huge! well. well edowed. So my honest question since my wife insists that the sex was not that great with these larger/taller men, is this, am i being told something to just help my insecuity? Her first was a 6' 3" body builder. I am her shortest in all ways by far. DOES size matter? Please be truthful. Thank you
2006-12-29 14:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by HonestlyCurious 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
nope doesn't matter. what matters is when it gets to the person and they think they're less then the other men. what matters more is confidence.
2006-12-29 15:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by answers4questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is the truth: size DOES matter, but unless you are freakishly small, you can usually do other things to compensate for lack of ...size (hopefully you know what these things are by now). However, I must tell you that your wife's infidelity isnt caused by your smaller size b/c im sure she knew how big you were from the beginning. I think she has some serious issues or you just attract the wrong type of woman, but i seriously doubt its because of your size.
2006-12-29 15:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mariya F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A womans canal comes in various sizes and lengths just like a mans penis. It isn't the size of the man that's all important, it's how you fit together with the woman. The women who say that size matters are women who have been with men whos penises didn't fit well with their vaginas. It's that simple. It's really unfortunate for men that most people don't know this simple fact. It's always unfairly blamed on the man. So, don't get a complex about it. I'm sure you are just fine.
2006-12-29 15:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slightly confused by your question...
First off a mans hight has nothing to do with his endowment. Your wife just seems to like taller men.
But yes size does matter (girth more than length) though not as much as some of us wish that it did. As long as your not freakishly small, there are things you can do to get around it. Look around online. There are several websites with tips. And I don't mean pornographic sites.
2006-12-29 17:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by prof_snakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say in a way size do matter. But then again it depends on the person, and how they stroke it. If they are huge and cant stroke it or you not really into that person the size dont matter oppossed to a smaller guy that you like who know how to stroke it. So then again for some people its just sex and nothing else so it dont really fade them. But for a relationship like I said it matters on who it is and how well they are- not really on size. Because size if very misleading.
2006-12-29 21:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ally R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur "really really" small i guess size would matter but what matters most is how u use it. Also always put your woman first, that is a definate plus!
Remember....... If she loves you she will love u regardless of your size because that is how u were born and nothing u can do (or should want to do) about it.
Be happy with who you are......God made you that way!
2006-12-29 15:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does matter and I know for a fact. I have been actually taking 6 1and a half penises for 18 years know and just had my 10 inch with a big head and god I cummed for days. I don't love him but I think about him as if I had my first piece of meat.
2006-12-29 15:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by gettysdeemer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally am with a taller man... he is 6 2
I am your height, however I have dated men my height and shorter. My first love was 1 in. shorter then myself. If there really is love there, then it really wouldn't matter at all.
2006-12-29 15:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Katrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife having so many sex partners, why would she lie to you, she should know. I assume you are back together now, since you said that you were separated for two years. Some people have to have many partners, they cannot help it. I hope you wife has got over her needing many partners. I would say, with her experience, if she says that, I would believe her.
2006-12-29 15:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was really well endowed - and really self absorbed. My husband is not as big - but just right for me - more concerned about my pleasure than his own - that's the secret == good love is all about giving, intercourse just happens.
2006-12-29 15:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Connie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes size does matter
2006-12-29 15:02:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋