i think i might be a lesbian...any help?
2006-12-29 14:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
have you ever looked into another womans eyes and got that warm feeling inside of you...or have you ever hugged another woman and you just didn't want to break that hug?... if so there is a chance that you could be lesbian or bi...just because you have only had sex with men does not make you straight
2006-12-29 16:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by me_being_me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've had sex with guys doesn't mean you're straight.
Take an honest look at who catches your eye when you're walking on a busy street or at a mall. Do you find yourself looking at strictly women and thinking they're hot/ you want them? Or do you find yourself looking at both men and women?
If you're only looking at women, then you're a lesbian, regardless of what you might have done in the past. If you're looking at both, then you're bi.
Basically, what you feel is the indicator, not what you do...
2006-12-30 01:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by sexy_sorceress_169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can tell is by looking at who you're attracted to. Just being around guys won't make you a lesbian. It all depends on how you feel.
2006-12-29 23:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question I have is have you slept with any women? If you have, it comes down to which sex (male/female) fullfilled your needs. In the morning did you want to she the girl or the guy. When they leave which do you long to see again? To answer your base question - yes you could be a lesbian even though you have slept with men. The real answer comes down to which one does your heart ache for? when you answer that question you'll know. good luck!
2006-12-30 20:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by chuzzlemegreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly hope so! My mother is a lesbian and she's got six kids!
She was raised a Catholic, married young and after a divorce, realized she was a lesbian.
2006-12-30 23:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by E_Tard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between sexual orientation and sexual expression. It's possible for you to be a lesbian. Do you have any romantic feelings for guys? Or are you only attracted to women? Or are you possibly attracted to both?
2006-12-30 00:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not an illness you know? Most of us are neither fully hetro or fully homo and do have fantasies, thoughts or desires to try it 'the other way'. If you want to see what your predominant tendancy is though just be concious of which sex you are attracted to the most and maybe go experiment (safely).
2007-01-01 06:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya im lesbian an i had sex with guys!u wanna hook up with me?
2006-12-30 12:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by daria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋