Is this wrong?

Question

I am really starting to like this guy I met here on answers. He is 29, is married and has been with his wife for 6 years now. He thinks his wife has a guy on the side. She doesn't approve of his chatting because thats how they met (online). He is nice and very funny. Is it wrong that I like him? Most of you will say it is just lust but I know it isn't I really do like him. Am I wrong for doing this?

Answer 1

Yes he is married. No self respecting woman would ever get involved with a married man. Women are suppose to stick together.

Answer 2

Sweetie, two wrongs do not make a right. Got it!!! If the wife is cheating, he needs to grow up and deal with the problem and work on his marriage. Go find someone of your own and find them in real life, not online!!! Maybe this guy makes a habit of finding women online. Maybe his wife makes a habit of finding men online. Do you really want to be involved with people like that. Think about it. Good luck.

Answer 3

Yes. He is married. You have no idea the extent of his situation. Even if they are having problems you are only adding to it. If he is unhappy with his wife he needs to be taking care of that before getting involved with another person. You really like him, that part isn't wrong. You can't help who you like. We're all human and often find ourselves attracted to the most unlikely of people or people who are not available. No one can fault you for your feelings. However, you do need to be aware of your actions. You can like him all you want but getting involved with him isn't okay...at least not until he has figured out what is going on with his wife. Let him take care of his home situation.

Answer 4

No is not wrong for liking someone you love, but is wrong for liking a guy that is married (for 6 years). I think the best thing to do is move on, I know is hard becauze when i was young i like this guy who already have a girl/f. I try so hard but he just cant be with me. Sometime you just have to face the reality~ Hope this help<3

Answer 5

First off, Do you really think he is going to leave his wife? Most likely not. This is nothing out of the ordinary. He will continue to chat with you and such, and it's sad that your falling for it. Chances are he is not going to leave his homestead. He is also showing his trustworthiness by chatting with you. Do you think you are the only one. or that he would never to that to you?

Please be careful. I don't mean to burst your bubble. im just being real. Take care and good luck. read between the lines.

Answer 6

Regardless if she has a guy on the side, he's still married. Get out now before the feelings become stronger, and it gets harder. It isn't wrong to have feelings like you are having, but it is wrong to get involved with someone who is married. My advice is to just move on, especially since you haven't met him and it hasn't gone any farther. Good Luck.

Answer 7

even though his wife n him r havin problemz dont mean hez availible i suggest u stay away cuz another problem mite add up to a marriage break up u can like him but as a crush not as like like or it mite be a very big problem n newayz he has a wife n iz married a wurd ov advise therez alot ov other fish in the ocean good luck

Answer 8

You're not doing anything wrong, he is. If his wife has told him that she doesn't like him chatting online, he shouldn't be having private conversations of a romantic nature with you.

Answer 9

I think people like you are wrong. There is plenty of guys out there without hitting on someone elses. If there is a ring on his finger he is out of bounds.
Does he have kids????? How would they feel????? Think of how many people you could hurt!!!!
Not to mention loosing friends! Most people don't approve of snatching others partners.
How would you feel if your boyfriend/ husband did it to you!!!!

Answer 10

Let me put it this way "He's married". Leave him alone and let him try to get right with his wife. Why do people always want what they cannot have.