I am a 13 year old south aussie girl who is constantly being teased at home and at school. I write depressing poetry yet do not feel depressed. One of my poems was titled 'Nothing'. In that poem it basically said that some people want to be super-heros or super-villans, fairies or monsters, immortal and various other things. But I don't want to be anything. I don't even want to be me. And I don't know why. Is it wrong thing to feel this way?
2006-12-29 13:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Being nothing and doing nothing takes lots of practice....keep it up and maybe you'll get really good at it! Just think, someday you'll get old and die of nothing.
2006-12-29 13:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
My Little Darling, I know how you feel. When I was younger I was teased unmercifully at school and at play in the village when I was home. I had to finally take off up into the hills and down into the creek marshes to get away from it all. Animals became my freinds and companions. You feel like you do because you're hurting and you want the hurting to stop. That's why you want to be nothing. It's far easier to be two-dimensional and not be seen than to be teased and constantly hurt.
Of course it's not wrong to feel that way. It's Human. You don't want to be You because You are being tormented. It doesn't help that you're probably starting to go through your menses and puberty is rearing it's ugly head. Girls get nastier and the under-dogs get all the brunt of it.
If you'd like (and if you ask your mum) you may email me and we'll talk about this a bit. Otherwise you might want to seek out some counseling if it's available.
The only thing I advise though is to find out who You are and learn to love who You are. If you don't love Yourself (of course mum and dad do....) then it won't matter if others do. You need to love yourself first off. Blessings, my Dear One.
2006-12-29 21:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are 13? Well let me say first of all, that you aren’t by yourself on that sentiment. There are many who do undergo the same way. I myself at one point in time in my life, felt just like becoming extinct should been better for me. But as time went by, I realized that those sentiments were from satan the evil one.
I would like to say to you to read a Bible, go to a church, a good Bible preaching church, have some good friends in their, ask Jesus to forgive you for that sentiment. I am sure I could tell you more, but you need to footstep forward all by yourself, the answer is out there for you and only you can discover it out.
2006-12-29 21:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all don't say you don't want to be you! Do you know why?? Because there is only one you in the entire universe!
Each one of us is unique and special in our own individual way. Don't put yourself down by saying you don't want to be yourself. Even if you say you aren't depressed, you sound as though you don't feel important or that you matter to anyone!
Tell the people who are teasing you that they are hurting you and to stop! That is your perfect right: to be loved and respected. People who tease feel badly about themselves so they tease to lift their own self-esteem.
Hang in there and tell yourself that you are special and wonderful. Try to make friends with people who help you feel good about yourself. If you can, confide in a teacher, friend's mom, or other female relative.
2006-12-29 21:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl heres a way to forget everything just be your self be prund of who you are and if someone is being mean to you stand up for your self and just walk away and if you dont give them tention they wont be mean to you oh it works im 9 almost 10 and i have 1 18 year old brother and one 17 year old brother trust me if you walk away they wont bother you at all good luck and finding alot of answers and the best answers to and also goodluck at school and home bye hugs!
2006-12-29 21:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if it's "wrong" to feel this way, but it is definitely not healthy to feel this way. I would suggest you seek counseling, even if you do not feel depressed, I would suggest counseling to help discover why you feel as you do. Good luck :)
2006-12-29 21:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kiara 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it is normal cause you still have a lot of time to try new things and explore what you really want to be.
2006-12-29 21:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Complicated-World♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta stick with your ambition girl! Seriously, I know it's seems like forever now but when you are an offical adult people will kind of leave you alone. Its something to look forward to. I know it sux that they won't you be yourself now but at least it won't be forever.
2006-12-29 21:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all felt this way at one time ....hang on to your youth and embrace it youll miss it some day
2006-12-29 21:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by rb_antiques 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 13. It'll pass...
2006-12-29 21:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋