My husband wanted the divorce becuase he didn't love me like he should. I gave him the divorce, but love him with all my heart and didn't want the divorce.
2006-12-29 12:58:52 · 8 answers · asked by neveah t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are still emotionally attached. You are going to have to find a way to let go. What you thought you had doesn't exist anymore and living in the past is only toture. Make a new life for yourself. This includes new hobbies, new places, and yes, maybe a new man. It will take time and effort, but you have to create a new reality for yourself and accept that your marriage is behind you. Open yourself up to the possibilities and you will be pleasantly surprised what life has waiting for you.
2006-12-29 13:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Apple21 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a tough thing, and it is not your fault. Sometimes, people grow apart, or it is just not the same anymore, then they take the easy way out, and want to leave. I am sorry you had to go through this. It is a shame. I would just be strong if I were you, and try hard to not show how you feel. tell him to take his divorce and like it. If he really loves you back, he will come back after you are like that. If not, you should find someone else, because there are guys on the other end of the stick that would love to be with you. (In fact, 75% of divorces are woman initiated!) Talk to people, and try to keep busy. I know it hurts, but you have to stay strong!
2006-12-29 13:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time. I'm separated and soon to be divorced by my hubby, too, which is not what I want. I know that feeling. You're frustrated, you want to do what you can to turn your marriage around and they are convinced that divorce is the only way out. As long as you handled yourself with dignity and don't want to rewind the tape and have any regrets as to how you handled the divorce, you prevailed and have grown from this. We are anxious about the future and are depressed by the past. Take it one day at a time. Do what's right for YOU. When you get down, cry and let it out. Try to do something that keeps your concentration, but certain things trigger your pain again. You can get on, but never quit loving.
2006-12-29 13:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i know exactly what you're going through. I have to give the woman i love with everything i've got a divorce and i don't want to. She cheated on me and used me for my money and benefits because i'm a Marine. I think she married me because of the advantages. Not because of me. I guess its hard because you still love the person and you really don't want to be away from them. Especially because you put so much time and effort into the person. Things get better. Or so i'm told.
2006-12-29 13:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by linkinparkblacksabbath 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its always hard for a divorce but eventually u will get through it everyone does divorce has to reasons to leave something that u really love behind and to leave some1 u hate. which 1 do u chose and yur gonna have to let them go even if its the hardest thing but rememeber that u will fine dome1 who love u even better
2006-12-29 13:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because you "love him with all your heart" - you think?
2006-12-29 13:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your saying, it's hard because you still love him.
2006-12-29 13:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you still love him
2006-12-29 13:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋