I need help to figure if to stay in london or to go home because it is not going good?

Answer 1

Joann:
What is "it"? look luv, things are always not going good if your not happy. Consider that you have been gone a while, and home will not be the same as when you left. You are not the same.
Lack of cash? Lack of friends? Broke up with mate or lover?
Cheaper to stick it out and try and discover what it is inside you that is not going good.
Location rarely matters. Make some changes Inside,and try and be happy!

Answer 2

Well without furhter details, it's a little hard to give any detailed or accurate advice, but I'll try and give some.

London is a...unique place within Britain. No matter where you're from in the country, London will always be bigger, louder, more confusing and much more expensive.

Now if you're from a city, you have to think of why you chose London over your native city? Was it just to go to a new city, or did London have something for you (esp job wise) that could only be found in London? If it's the former, consider moving back home, or to a smaller friendlier and cheaper city like Cardiff

If you're from a town or village... then London must seem very overwhelming indeed. Which is not to say you can't cope, but it will be much more difficult for you, especially if you're having problems. From your question it sounds like you went straight from your home area to London, which if your home area is rural is a very big step up. However, you mustve gone to London for a reason, and city life does have a certain convenience about it you can;'t find in a village. In this situation, my advice is also to think about moving to a smaller city, which still has all the convenience and facilities at your doorstep, but doesn't leave you feeling quite so small and lost as London tends to.

Answer 3

Well, there's not really enough info to know what the problems are and why you are considering leaving. I think the important thing when considering a move is to determine if the problems are really being caused by where you are, or if the problems are just going to relocate with you. For example, if you don't have enough money is it because of London prices or is it because of spending habits or being under-employed? If you are lonely is that going to improve by moving elsewhere or will you just be lonely somewhere new? No one else can really say for you what is right for you. Just think about why it's not going well and be realistic as to how moving will change that. Moving can cause a lot of stress on its own, so don't pack up and go on a whim. If "home" is somewhere you have family and friends and could establish yourself in work, etc. then it might be worth considering.

Answer 4

I would suggest that you went home. It doesn't have to be permanent move. Go back to comfortable surroundings, get yourself sorted and then maybe try living somewhere else.

Please don't stay in London if it is not working out for you. Like most major cities it is not a very pleasant place to be if you are not happy.

Go home, take your time, and plan your next step in surroundings you are comfortable with.

If things are going really bad, there are organisations that can help you. Please don't be alone and scared. If all else fails contact the Samaritans or another organisation.

I am sorry to hear that things aren't going well. Please take good care of yourself - you've got me worried now.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

if its not going good then try to resolve the reasons why its not going good i might be moving to london in march and i have lots of problems here i need to resolve first before i move don't run away from things try and evaluate them you never no you might make them better otherwise you might end up regretting everythink there is an answer out there to your problems but it can only be fixed by you, if you want to fix it be prepared for a few tough times if you think it cant be fixed look at it from another point of view you have an option for everythink you do in life its just up to you to be prepared to sacrifice alot of thought and effort i wish you well.

Answer 6

Stick it out. London can be completely rediscovered every few months. You can hide and come back a different person. You can completely change your life and start a new one. Until you have exhausted what London can offer, stick it out.

Answer 7

You might want to include more information in the details section if you really want people to be able to give advice. Otherwise, I'll assume you just want people to urge you to go home 'cause that's what you've decided to do anyway.

Good luck with it either way.

Answer 8

Go home. Once you have lived in London for about 4 years you get really sick of it anyway, it is rubbish, and hectic.

Answer 9

OK so you i in no men land ofcouse it's not going to be great the first year or may be the second year, i think you should stay it takes time for thinks to go good be strong it's Worthy it.

Answer 10

Yep, more info required. You just travelling or do you work here? Wot sort of stuff you doing? Where abouts you come from originally and whot sort of place is it (busy, quiet)? What you looking for, adventure, good bars, friends, education and culture?