what should I do? should I tell her how I feel? should I want it not to work out? what should I do? is that normal to want them to break up?
2006-12-29 12:16:06 · 6 answers · asked by catchup 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let this be a lesson to you, and move on. If you don't act, you're going to miss the boat.
It's normal to want them to break up, but it takes a real jerk to try to make it happen. Leave her alone, or that's proof you don't care about her.
2006-12-29 12:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow...ive been in that position b4. i had the hugest crush on my best friend for like 7 years! from like when i was 5-12. and one day i told him i liked him and....he took it pretty well but his gf didnt....id say take it slow. okay? just see where this realtionship goes. for me i just let my friend come 2 me with the little stuff. like his promlems with his girl and the fites and stuff and i listened. dont make a real move cuz thats not gonna get u anywhere. trust me. maybe u could tell her how u feel but really just let ur friend come 2 u and slowly ur making progress....promise...hope i helped and hope it worx out
2006-12-29 12:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by hillary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do:
if you really like/love her and willing to take ALL THE RISKS, then tell her how you feel!
and YES it is NORMAL to want them to break up! and im sure, not only YOU who want other couples to break up! but what is NOT NORMAL is to do something BAD just to win her.
2006-12-29 12:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wait til they break up. when she needs someone to help her support then you jump in. keep by her side when thngs are down. then its a matter of waiting and being patient. When the time is up and she is ready to move on sit down with her and tell her how you feel. Its happened to me before. My best friend who is a guy and one of my friends who is a girl both went out. Then mi guy friend dumped her then he wanted to go back out with her but he broke her heart. so she went out with his friend. he was broken heartd then of course i jumped in. now we have been going out for 6 months.
2006-12-29 12:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by ahafoka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her how you feel and see how she reacts.
Never know.. She might like you back. & Dont worry its completley normal to want them to break up because you like her!
2006-12-29 12:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Skittlez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MISS YOU TURN!
A real Friend will step back and wait to see if they stay together or break up.
If they break up, MOVE and MOVE FAST.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-29 12:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋