when someone talk to me, one of my best friend always go moody and won`t speak to me . what can i do to convince her that im not just going to just dump her to go hang around with someone else?
2006-12-29 11:59:48 · 12 answers · asked by party princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Show her how you truly feel. When you begin to do things with someone else try including her so she wont feel left out. Try puting yourself in her shoes. Maybe she doesnt realize how much you care for her. Give her time she'll understand
2006-12-29 12:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by SunshineShortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and reassure her. Be honest and tell her you notice her changes when you talk to other people, and let her know you are her true friend-she isn't going anywhere. Sounds like she has had someone dump on her before-so as her friend take that into consideration when you are talking with other people and make sure she is included in the conversation. If she feels left out-she won't open up to let other people in. Everybody has their quirks- and a good friend will stand beside and help uplift when the other person is feeling insecure.
2006-12-29 12:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs an attitude adjustment. She is trying to control you thru her moodiness and jealousy. Your being too nice about it in my opinion. I would give her a wake up call instead by telling her if she doesnt stop trying to be a control freak about you that you will get tired of it real soon and then you WILL dump her. Tell her there is room to be friends with all kinds of people.
2006-12-29 12:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have had bad experiences with friends. She's just a little insecure. She'll get over it. Just keep being the friend you are to her, and she should be able to trust you. Maybe there is something very wrong going on in her life. Talk to her, and get her to open up to you.
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2006-12-29 12:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are interested in having more than just her friendship, but that she is still your best friend. Maybe she just feels that she can't get other friends. Tell her that you'll have more to talk about, and that you don't want to hurt her feelings, so that is why you are talking to her first. Don't tell her over the phone, internet, or instant message. That would be lame.
2006-12-29 12:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by gardengirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is insecure there is really nothing you can do to convice her that you are a true friend....It seems to me that she is insecure in herself....maybe something happened to her before that she feels like everyone is going leave her...bear with her and try talking about it to her. Give her time and Good luck!!
2006-12-29 12:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully authentic! (and in specific circumstances, some truly good Italian pasta and tomato sauce does not harm the two!) A reasuring presence, ... a mild while situations are darkish, A hand achieving out, ... Is what friendship is all approximately! (author Unknown) "Arivederche Y'all!" ... :)
2016-12-31 06:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to include her in the conversation. also, try to figure out why she is so attached to you. Usually best friends are comfortable enough with each other that they can go off, make other friends, and march to the beat of their own drums.
2006-12-29 12:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by doomonyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is jealous but you must try to talk to her in a stern way and let she knows that it is not a harm to have more than one friend and therefore she should stop been jealous.
2006-12-29 12:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by maria fkun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't convice her at all. That's just something she needs to get over. Be yourself and talk to whoever you want to, and she'll either get the message that your friendship isn't exclusive, or she'll bail on you.
2006-12-29 12:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋