Im 28 my b-friend's 28. We've been 2gether for almost 1yr. He ralely makes me orgasm. He can 'last'-but ??

Question

I've been in a previous relationship that was long term...and my ex was able to make me climax in a short while. Their "styles" are different in bed though...Im open about what I like but...still, no prize:(

Answer 1

It seems that you are open with what you like. But did you try 'showing' him by performing it on yourself? Maybe try getting some toys involved in the love making.

Do a little role play. You are the teacher and dress up like the teacher. Make him do certain things to pleasure you. And he does not get it right, smack his rear and make him do it again.

Hope this works.

Answer 2

http://www.Goaskalice.com This site goes to Columbia University. and deals with sexual questions. It answers all sorts including if you want to ask one.
Who answers?? Sex health doctor specialist types.
I say talk-tell him-show him-=you will only have to do it once.
From my experience, being a male too, I had that problem too (of finding the "G spot" if that was the problem) - I didn't say anything such as " turn on the lights so I can look cause I never saw vagina except in magazines" because well you can well imagine considering my age at the time(I guess it is an assumed thing that a guy has seen pussy at 15 or whatever).

Do you see that I made and assumption right here?? It was G spot location.

I failed initially to consider what your turn ons are. As does you BF. So, life is farther reaching than the bed room. Have you told him your likes and dislikes. Do you know yourself?
With your ex, did he get it right off the bat? Really, remember, how long did it take. Was it a first for you at that time?
Most of the turn on happens because of the fantasy, the anticipation of something so if it was your first time and he(the ex) is in the same neighborhood, it wasn't even necessay to be in the ballpark - it was close enough to have you climax. The anticipation is what drove that.
Once you did it a hundred or so times, the fireworks are not as bright anymore as you know what's coming next. (maybe the ex had other experiences, you being another notch on his belt)
With your BF, is it that he is unfamiliar or uncaring? Unfamiliar means you got a virgin. They are gonna fall off more than once.
Have you showed him what you like and what you don't. He is not a mind reader.

Do you like cuddling more, hugging more, other? Talk.

You need to understand this bout guys. We are wired differently upstairs. We are not feely,or highly compassionate. We have a job to do....hunt and kill food and provide. Has not changed ever. Women are bearers of children and raisers and teachers of the same. Accept that and look for things you two have in common and work on making those bonds stronger.
Opposites don't attract. Luck with it :-)

Answer 3

I don't think the problem is with your b/f, I think it lays in you. Maybe he doesn't turn you on like the other guy did. Maybe your thinking too much about the other guy and not him while he is making love to you. There is more to sex and orgasms than the way they perform.

Answer 4

If he dose not care if you are satisfied and he just wants to satisfy him self for get it . BUT perhaps he needs to know how to last longer he must think of something disgusting like cleaning out the garbage can or anything to keep him from beating you to the finish .Also he must find your ''G'' spot .

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Get on top and show him how. If he's a considerate lover he'll watch and learn.

Answer 7

dump the zero....get with a hero

Answer 8

try to take charge and show him what you like

Answer 9

you might need to consider going back to ex, if your going to b*tch about his sex game, cause thats not what its all about stupid

Answer 10

I don't know, I'm not 28.