What do I do??
I hooked up with my best friend's girl. We were both drunk and she doesn't want to tell him. Do I tell him and take the hit??
Or wait til she tells or he finds out??
I don't want to lose a friend. It does go bros b4 ho's right?? Then he should be on my side, right??
*I don't mean that I think she is a whore(although many think she is)
Is it better for me to tell him soon here and deal with the fact that our friendship will be a little weaker(not destroyed tho)
OR
Not say anything until she has been with all our friends??
Would you rather hear it from your friend or g/f??
What would she be able to blame on me??
2006-12-29 11:28:10 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Does the whole crying for sympathy thing only work for chicks??
2006-12-29 11:36:03 · update #1
Wouldn't he let me off scott free?? I am his friend.
2006-12-29 11:37:55 · update #2
You are in a bad situation my friend. You will have to think what if the shoe were on the other foot. Would you want your friend to come to you that he slept with your girlfriend or keep it from you? You already know the right thing to do, tell him yourself. But don't be shocked if your friendship is never the same. It may even be over. One thing for sure.....if he finds out from her and you never said anything....it will be war.
2006-12-29 11:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do here is to tell your best friend. I mean he is ur best friend and if u let him find out by himself it will ruin ur friendship more than if u tell him urself. since he would feel betrayed and lied to. and no matter how drunk u are it was still a mistake so ull have to say sorry or do something to make up to ur friend. it is true that friends go before hos. and what do u mean wait until shes been with all our friends? like sleep with all of them? if so then tell ur bestfriend that, she probably didnt only sleep with u to make matters worse with lots other other ppl! and ur bestfriend definatly deserves to know! good luck hope this helps!
2006-12-29 11:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. You were both in the wrong, come clean. Take it like a man. If your in the bad books so be it, at least you have nothing to hide.
Whats a friendship without trust and loyality. You made a mistake, admit it, what ever happens take it. She obviously doesnt love him if she is opening up her doors to you. Better to find out sooner than later. The longer you leave it the worse the outcome
2006-12-29 11:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mareezi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to tell him before he finds out from someone else. It seems that you answered your own question though. You just have to come clean, and tell him the truth. No lies, No nothing. Don't leave anything out that he could find out about later on. It's better to have a weaker friendship that you could try to mend, than a destroyed one you know
2006-12-29 13:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly I don't think a saying has anything to do with it. Even if you were drunk he's probably not going to trust the two of you anymore and probably think about his friendship with you. So to be on the safe side instead of letting him find out, tell the truth and suffer the consequences. Be sure to mention you were drunk. If that helps.
2006-12-29 11:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saying Bros B4 hoes means you don't touch another guys girl, not go get with them and expect forgiveness. If the two of you are true friends it will be okay especially being a teen. Later in life not so okay! Come clean before she does or else he will be mad at you!
2006-12-29 16:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and the young woman can do the adult thing - have a little talk and agree that this episode was a mistake and that neither of you needs to talk about it to anyone, including your best friend/her boyfriend. Spilling your guts isn't always the kind or productive thing to do. Sometimes you just have to belt up and deal with your conscience in private, and I've got a feeling this might be one of those times.
2006-12-29 16:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Think about it this way. YOU are dating a girl and are really into her. YOUR best friend hooks up with her. No one tells you. Now what would you want? To find out from the girl? or from your friend? I would rather find out from my friend personally. Think about what you would want, then go with that. If you'd rather find out from the girl, let him find out from the girl. Also keep in mind that if you don't tell him yourself your going to loose even more of his trust.
Good luck!
and remember..little relationships aren't ever worth good friendships. And don't keep that girl around. She sounds like too much drama!
2006-12-29 11:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. Not because you're his friend or anything like that. But if you feel like you should tell him then do so. But don't expect to "get off scott free" just because you're his friend. He'll most likely be madder at you because you ARE his friend. Even if she didn't know better, you did. Like you said, "bros before hos".
2006-12-29 12:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Wiccan~Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off end anything with her ASAP, then come clean "look, me and your girl hooked up, we were both drunk but i know that is no excuse, i am truely sorry and wish it never happened but it did, i cant erase my mistakes, but i would like to earn your forgiveness. i just wanted to fess up and be straight foreword with you. your my best friend and i should have known better, i ended it right away and i am sorry and i hope we can still be friends." tht is all you can say, say it in person and in a calm mood and enviornment and hope for the best, good luck
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2006-12-29 14:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by popeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋