please help im only 17?

Question

Ok so im 17...?
so i got emancipated from my parents 2 years ago, and things were going good and then the building i lived in burned down so i started to live with my bf, things were really good but oneday he came home and was really mad about getting fired, then he just started beating me and wouldnt stop. when he did stop he left the house and came back later thet night. so then the next week or so i went to the doctor and found out i was pregnant. i told him and he was some what happy, now he locks me in rooms and wont let me leave the house, iv tried to leave bt every time he thretens to kill me and my baby, i dont speak to my parents anymore because my mother was abusive towards me. i need a way to get away from him safely please help me!!! he really does scare me and he told me it was my fault he was fired (i dont know why) and i really want out and i dont want him in my childs life and abortion isnt an option, i get benifits because im native american, please help me

he is always saying "mami im sorry i dont mean to hurt you" or "mami, im sorry...te amo"

i really wanna leave pease help me

i cant says he's worse than my mom but i cant say he is better, my mom used to beat me and was very open about it and would do it in front of people, the school had the child protective sirvices come(they found out because i came to school with bruses and we were in gym class we were in the pool and you could see all of my bruses) and take me away, then they said i could go back to her and i asked if i could get an emancipation and they let me,

his family and my family dont know that he does this to me and his family is very good to me ,im just afraid to tell them because they might not believe me

thank you to the people who answer and dont post mean comments

Answer 1

i was in a situation very simular to yours, i moved back to my ndn rez and stayed with my ex bf(who is now my bf again) it will only get worse, mine went as far as tieing me up and being beaten with chains and being raped constantly, i also got pregnant, get away for yur sake and the babys sake, if you are in need of someone to talk to e-mail me at [e-mail]

if you are registered on a rez some wont let people in unless you are called first so get to one (your native american its not hard and it doesnt take long to get to one if you have proof of being a native, please get help!!!)


chug luv

-peace!!-

Answer 2

I've read a lot of posts and calling the police seems very popular...it may be hard though if you are locked in a room all day. Make sure you have a bad packed including things you need. Don't say anything to anybody in his family, because they may be likely to say something to him about it and then nothing will work. THe main thing is HAVE A PLAN TO GET OUT, before trying to get out. If he is doing this to you he may do it to your baby. All the extra stress on you isn't good for your baby either. You have the internet so look up #'s for domestic violence shelters in your area and when you feel its safe to leave then leave!

Answer 3

honey, this is a very sad situation. do you have an accessible cell phone or any kind of phone? if so, use that to call the police or, better yet, call a domestic abuse hotline. violence against women is sick and wrong, but unfortunately, it still exists in our society. for the record, it's NOT your fault that your @ss of a boyfriend got fired, and it was wrong of him to take it out on you, especially in your already fragile condition. depending on how far along you are in your pregnancy and how high the room is you're locked in (i would recommend doing this in a first-floor room), bust a window open, take your personal possessions with you, jump out, and run as fast as you can and don't look back. run to the nearest friend's or family member's house and perhaps call the police there. after you get the help you need to get away from this psycho @ss, consider a restraining order and stay with friends and/or family until you get back up on your feet. i hope all goes well for you. also, consider enrolling in a self-defense class so you'll be better equipped to fight jerks like him.

Answer 4

Might be hard but call the police and tell them you are being kept against your will. They will come and get you. There is also www.ndvh.org, go to the get help tab and you will find a listing for your area or call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). But calling the cops seems as if it would be wuicker and safer for you at this point in time. You are young and still have your entire life ahead of you. Draw on the same strength it took to handle the emancipation process and get away from this guy. Love yourself enough to go somewhere safe.

Answer 5

Do not call the police if you don't want to make it a big production. Call 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE). It's a national hotline for abused women. Starting in February there will be a Teen Dating Violence Hotline. But for now call the number I gave you. They should be able to discreetly help you out of the home while he is gone and they will help you find a place to live and a job as well as help you with your pregnancy and your baby. Don't give up you have to stay strong for your baby and yourself.

Answer 6

You need to call the police when he's not around and not going to be around. Get your stuff packed in the mean time, and they can take you to a womans shelter. You'll be safe there. They keep everything confidential and he won't be told anything. You are a momma now, and you have to stand up again and hold your ground. You seem like a smart girl with strong will. Don't give up, and there are always people that care. ~Amy

Answer 7

Yes i understand your situation it is very hard to hear this or see you go through this u are only 17! I use to live next door to this couple she was pregnant and her husbad wouldnt let her go out, he unplugged all of her phone lines and took her cell phone away and didnt let her call anyone. so what you should do is wait until he gets out of work u should know when he works ? okay go to the poliec or contact some of your friends because you cannot go through with this any longer! or call the police immediatly like the woman that lived downstairs she knocked on my door asking for the phone and she said that her husband hit her and toold them everything they came immdeiatly so i advise u to do the same! you need to do something about him but you have to stay strong believe in urself and you can do anything! take care!

Answer 8

Call the police and ask them to take you to a domestic violence shelter. They can help you with a place to stay and other help you will need. He has no right to lock you in or beat you. Call them now if you can if you cant call the next time you get a chance. If he hits you again call the cops. Maybe hes more abusive than Mom was think about it call the cops and get out of there.

Answer 9

i know this is gonna be hard to do, but you HAVE to get away from him. it seems like you go from one abusive person to the next. you need to let someone know about this so it can stop. otherwise he WILL hurt you and your baby really bad. i had a friend in a similar situation and she regretted staying with him. so trust me on this. GET OUT before it's too late for you and your baby's sake. go to the police, or a safe house for women of abusive families/husbands. you and your baby deserve the best and from the sounds of it you aren't getting treated right.

Answer 10

your in a very frightening situation, and i cant even imagine what your feeling right now. you need to call the police a friend you trust anyone you can contact. i really dont know what else you can do about it. im sorry i couldnt help you more, but good luck, ill pray for you and your baby.

Answer 11

Climb out of the window, fight your way out of the door, find something to use as defence! You will have to fight for your life to get away from him, that is the hardest part. After you get out go to the police and they can help with safe housing. If he locks you in rooms while he is gone hide oil and vinegar in each room, vinegar will get rid of rust on the door connectors to the wall, oil will lube it to get them separated. Like I said, be prepared for the fight of your life, good luck!