2006-12-29 11:09:59 · 23 answers · asked by bigbadbutters05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Check for scaring on your head or shoulders. Do you have those freaky folded ears..........clear sigh of a botchd abortion.
2006-12-29 11:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really think about this, hate is a very strong to use towards the woman that brought you into this world. Whatever she did in the past the fact is you are here because she loved the thought of bringing a baby to this world which says a lot about her , if the thought of abortion ever crossed her mind , she must have been going through very difficult times and must have been scared of the quality of life she was able to offer you back then , but whatever her reasons we can never judge our parents, you might still be a teenager and you still have not gone through enough problems yet to know what it really means to come to a decision like that especially if you are a woman, I am a mother and i know in my heart your mother loves you with all of her heart , otherwise you wouldn't be here.....
You should thank her for giving you life, do not judge 'cause you don't know what hard decisions are waiting for you in life and i'd bet nothing you could ever do , could ever make your mom say she hates you.......so don't use that word at least not towards your MOTHER!!
2006-12-29 11:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sabionda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if your mom tried to abort you. The fact to the matter is, you are here. You are alive. And why waste your energy hating her. She apparently changed her mind. Life is to short to hate your parents. There is gonna be a day when she is gone and you will sit and think about how you could of done better with them. And it will be to late then to change anything. Don't blow it. Make the best of it.
2006-12-29 11:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by btyboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down sweetie......she never tried to abort you or you wouldn't be here now.
You need to learn to love your Mom, and she needs to show you that she does love you too.
Life is to short to fill it with hate, try to change the hate to love and see how much your life will change.
Hate is very negative and it lets off A LOT of negative vibes.
If you turn the negative vibes to positive vibes your whole life will start to change, its amazing and it really works !
when your life is full of positive vibes everything will come your way and you will be SOooo happy !
TRY IT, IT REALLY WORKS !
good luck sweetie & have a safe and
HAPPY NEW YEAR !
2006-12-29 11:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some mothers are young and dont think they could take care of a child at the moment and some also couldnt just give the baby away. My mom was going to aboort me too and it shocked me but the fact that your alive means she loves you more than anything. Really you shouldnt hate her.
2006-12-29 12:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by SunshineShortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the one person by asking what proof do you have that she tried to do that to you anyway? Did she tell you herself or did someone else? And, if she did, what changed her mind to finally decide to keep you and raise you? You may be depress and upset, but you should not hate a woamn that decided to have you after knowing that she could of gave you up for adoption or aborted you.
2006-12-29 11:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont fully understand your mothers situation at the time you were conceived. The important thing is that she DIDNT abort you and she kept you. This shows me that she loved you enough to figure out her situation and love you no matter what. Give her a break. Try talking to her about your feelings.
2006-12-29 11:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so or you would not be here to ask this question. She had you isn't that enough. Oh, and somehow you got this computer your typing on...was it the parents? Hate is a strong word. Try loving her because she did when she chose to bring you into this world.
2006-12-29 11:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know apparently she didnt abort u b/c ure still alive u just hate her
2006-12-29 11:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by AbBi ThE pErSoN u KnOw 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on get over it, why do u hate her? U don't know what was going thru her mind when she was thinking this, she has her own reasons for thinking that. The point is that she did not act on it, so get over it.
2006-12-29 11:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you would ever know is to ask her or your dad. If you truly hate her, but want a better relationship, then ask her to go to counseling with you. If you don't care if she died tomorrow, then move on with your life and don't waste your time/emotions on her.
2006-12-29 11:14:05 · answer #11 · answered by steffers4979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋