Strong, fearless, emotionally wise & capable, involved with/supportive to her parents, deeply close with her female friends, sought after by males, generous, independent but loved by all, and generally successful and happy?
2006-12-29 11:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have very high standards for yourself. Your goals are also pretty vague. AND you will never be loved by all. That's why you need to be strong and fearless. You're probably an idealist (see link). You're not perfect. You may want to find something you're passionate about to give your energy to.
2006-12-29 11:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by rcpeabody1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Embrace that little girl...you are still her. Give her time to come out and play.
Love God and others as you love the little girl.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Listen more than you talk.
No one is "loved by all" You can please some of the people some of the time, but can't please all of the people all of the time. You will piss people off...what makes you stand out is how you react to them.
Never end your quest for knowlege. The more things you know about, the more interesting you will be to a wider variety of people.
Keep smiling...it's contagious and will draw people to you.
Trust God and know that he will never give you more than you can handle. He gave us mountains so we could learn how to climb.
Be honest with yourself and with others.
Remember that happiness is a choice, not something you achieve. There are people in this world who have next to nothing, yet are genuinely happy, and people who appear to have it all yet are miserable inside.
When in doubt...pray. Remeber the poem Footprints..."when you saw only one set of footprints in the sand, it was then when I carried you"
2006-12-29 19:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want those things, you can have them. You just need to believe it--develop confidence within yourself and everything else will follow. Perhaps some self-help books might help you to improve your confidence and help you to focus on the positive things in your life and how to keep improving it. Good luck to you!
2006-12-29 19:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by iansmommy818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Christ in your heart!
Keep a Vision of the woman you want to be.
Change your internal dialogue!
Love life and show your love to others!
2006-12-29 19:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You simply imagine yourself as "being" those qualities and then become them.
No practice, just become.
2006-12-29 19:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off you can keep on dreaming. no one is all that.
but sometimes you can correct things if you are living badly or if you are unhappy.
it's never too late to change!
2006-12-29 19:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
one step at a time
2006-12-29 19:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by whazzah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you have to have confidence in yourself and believe in God. Believing in God will help you tremendously.
2006-12-29 19:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by tropikanagirl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it is a strange question
i think there is no answer for
this question
2006-12-29 19:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by sarah a 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋