Is there something wrong with dating different girls without commitments. How do you ladies feel about this? how long would you date someone without being bf gf? How long would it take you to be upset?general question.
2006-12-29 10:54:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as the person is honest about not desiring a committment, that would be fine...I may or may not date him depending on my interest level in him...however not being open about it isn't kewl.
Nothing wrong with just casually dating and not settling with one person...just be straight up about it.
2006-12-29 10:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I see no problem with it as long as everyone's clear on the agenda. I don't know how long I would date someone before I would consider them a bf/gf...it really is a feeling between us rather than a time frame. I can usually tell on the first date whether or not I want a second one. If I keep dating the same person, then I would have a conversation about whether or not we were dating exclusively to see if we both felt the same. I would not be upset with a guy for dating others if I knew he was doing that. If I started to fall for him and was jealous about it, I'd tell him. If he didn't want to be exclusive, I'd move on to a new relationship.
I hope this helps. The dating waters are murky. I don't think there are any real clear specific directions on how to do it right. Best of luck.
2006-12-29 10:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start 'dating' someone, for me, meaning you really like that person, want to get to know that person, kiss, touch, etc. why do you want to date someone else at the same time?
Last year, after my divorce, I went on a date with a guy. It didn't click, didn't go again. A few months after I met the guy I wanted to be with again, and again, and kiss him and touch him, etc. If I'd found out, he'd be doing the same with another girl, of course, I'd be mad!!! There is no time frame of how long it takes, just the feel-good-thing. I think, there is not even a need to discuss when you are bf/gf. So, I'd say, once there is touching, mutual likeing involved, you're in. And you'll screw up if you go out with other girls, period.
2006-12-29 11:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls like commintments.. after a while,we take realtionships seriously and of course we liek to have fun but every girl dreams to get married an settling down with someone and make sure itd be a good environment to raise kids etc.. Girls hate when guys go jumping form one to another person and its for surely not good doing that cuz ur not being true to your heart.. on how long to be someone friend until being offical couple, well i personally think a few mths or until eachother is comfortable dating as having feelings etc.. and to be upset, depends on the issue...hope that helps anwser ur question!
2006-12-29 10:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is NOTHING wrong with dating with out commitments. Note I said DATING, I said nothing about sex and bedhopping. Dating SHOULD be on a casual basis, with no committments in the beginning. Relationships NEVER work if you don't have time to at least get to know one another before you jump into a realtionship. So you date different people, people you have certain things in common with. One girl might share your interest in action adventure movies. Another girl might enjoy going to concerts, another might like amusement parks. And if you enjoy all three You have three different dates to enjoy them with. This gives you a chance to compare personallities and discover just what kind of a female you would WANT to make a committment with.
2006-12-29 19:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think dating is cool, but how about one woman at a time. I think sometimes people are searching for that PERFECT match, and it's not out there.some people have commitment issues that they use DATING as an excuse,but to each it's own just be safe if you are being intimate with several people at once, otherwise you will have to slow down!! know what I mean!!!! in general women and men have different definitions when it comes to relationships for example if you're dating, one woman may be cool with it, no commitment fine. whereas another may expect more from you than you're willing to give. best wishes on your choices.
2006-12-30 15:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating I was always upfront about these things. I would always make it known that I dated for the sake of finding a husband and that I was against casual dating for the hell of it. That way nobody is confused or upset.
2006-12-29 11:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sleeping with all these girls? If so, then I would think that they are all going to be mad. If your just dating, then I wouldn't worry about it as long as your up front with all of them about it. If you start having sex with one of them, then you need to be honest about that too.
2006-12-29 11:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're referring to FWB (friends with benefits). Yes, it is possible. I know plenty of people that prefer that type of relationship.
2006-12-29 11:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't! I'd feel used and full of diseases, if that was the case.
2006-12-29 10:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋