My girlfriend died in May, But I still think about the sex we had....?

Question

Sometimes I pretend she is alive and it was all a misunderstanding.... and then I .... u no.... pleasure myself. I am not trying to bring her back and not into sado maccob stuff, it feels weird, but It is what I feel. She was really sexy (looked like Beyonce) Is this wrong?

I do have a new girl, but all guys do this.... admit it.... its the scenario that I am curious about....

Answer 1

this does not sound that crazy, especially since you are imagining her alive, but i cant say its the best thing to do. think of beyonce instead, thats a good one to think about.... i can tell you this first hand....

get it.... first 'hand'

good luck bro!

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about your girlfriend but it sounds like you have moved on, you mention a new girlfriend in your question. Good for you. What you think about when you masturbate is your own business and there's nothing wrong with your thoughts unless they are about committing criminal acts. Lots of men fantasize about women, famous and not, while doing this. Most of your friends and acquaintances are not likely to want to hear about this though...just keep it to yourself.

Answer 3

I don't think it's wrong. i think maybe you loved her a lot and can't let go or don't want to let go. Just be weary that infatuation dos'nt push you and your new girl apart.

Answer 4

probably normal

its so sad she died though, I think I would be too sad even for fantasies

Answer 5

no, i think that your girlfriend would want you to have a happy life! and it was not like you were married to her

Answer 6

Why would you bring that up here. Maybe you should get some dead meat out of the fridge to help you out with that