Okay..im turning 19 next week...when I had my first sexual awakening...it last about 50 min. we timed it cause it was my first time. Even when I "take care of self"...its atleast 10 to 15 min till I come. And when my fiance and I wanna do it for the second time...its atleast 30-40 mins.
I'm young..hormones rage..but takes forever to have an orgasm...is it me...prostate problems...should I see a doctor??? I need help...its depressing.
2006-12-29 10:17:36 · 14 answers · asked by Michael and Samantha 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
How odd!! In a previous question, you had premature ejaculation. Now you have the problem that it takes forever.
Make up your mind. What's it to be?
2006-12-29 10:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depressing? You should be elated. Most guys get off much too quickly and don't enjoy the sex. I used to take 30 to 60 minutes, my first time was nearly 4 hours, reallly sore!
You will change as you age, probably in a few years speed it up to about 10 minutes or less, even less time later. So don't worry, you are normal and should enjoy the action.
2006-12-29 19:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor? You are asking why you are taking so long to have an orgasm? You lasted 50 minutes you should be very proud. Frame the time. What are you depressed about? Sex doesn't have a time. It should be enjoyed, you are one of the lucky ones that you don't ejaculate five seconds in to intercourse. God man, relax normal time of sex for a man is about 5 minutes... you have staying power. Bottle what you have and sell it you will be a millionaire in no time... only if you could. I wish i had your problem....
2006-12-29 18:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on....it can't be a problem for your fiance...I guarantee it. Most guys are upset because they can't hold on for more than five minutes. There's nothing wrong with you. In fact, your fiance must be pretty happy. Discuss it with her if you really think there is a problem, but I guarantee she won't want you to be any earlier!
2006-12-29 20:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not at all, you are good to go. Your finace should be good with it :-) Most men cant last that long. I suggest going into the poern industry. It just means that you have great self control
2006-12-29 18:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nurse KeVo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make getting off your focus. Enjoy the experience...the intimacy...the closeness. Focus on her & her pleasure. Some men would give their eye teeth to not come so quickly!
2006-12-29 19:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's point of view, the additional time is wonderful. Plenty of time for her pleasure. My husband is the same way and we are extremely happy.
2006-12-29 18:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal. There are lots of varieties. Orgasms happen quicker when love deepens.
2006-12-29 18:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You were probably just nervous. Once you start to relax a bit, you should have no problem.
2006-12-29 18:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, just enjoy the experience, most women would kill to have a man that can outlast them.
2006-12-29 18:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Gordon S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋