I'm so confused. This's not new, I've been wondering about it for years. I never had a serious boyfriend nor a relationship with a woman. But this is not the first time I feel I'm in love with one. I don't know. Could someone that experienced something similar give me some advice?
2006-12-29 10:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by =)pinkyt 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you may be one, but you are not alone in wondering about things like this. Maybe we all swing both ways.
2006-12-29 10:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I have the same doubts too but I have thought it over and found that I am straight.
But back to helping you out. I would try to figure out if this is some urge you have or is is something emotional. Because I have an unloving mother I found myself more comfortable with guys and very uncomfortable with women and it can give the mistaken impression about if your gay or not.
If you want children I would say your straight, if your just wanting a sexual relationship without the entanglements of children then I would say go for gay.
2006-12-29 10:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have had many relationships with men, serious long terms ones too. However, I have met one woman who I ended up having a relationship with. I am not gay, nor do I consider myself bi-sexual.
I think society puts too much stress on labels. Listen to what your heart tells you, as well as your...you know. You'll figure it out. I don't think that you should have to choose either, men and women both have great attributes, they are just different.
Hope that helps a little.
2006-12-29 11:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel exactly. i went through this same thing. i dated this guy and he wasnt really anything special but then i met this girl and i fell in love and we dated and you know it felt right to be with a girl. Im bisexual but im in a very loving relationship right now with the love of my life. and its a girl. i have never been happier. all i have to say is if you find a girl that sweeps you off your feet then she does. maybe youre bi. there is nothing wrong with being bi and you know ppl put way too much stress on labling people that are gay and bi. i really hope this helps. just follow your heart and it will lead you to the love of your life.
2006-12-29 12:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by numberone baller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u don't love the woman it's just a lie from the pit of hell and it's all right to be alone u don't have to get a man just for pete's sake not a woman
2006-12-29 10:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by calis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual orientation and sexual expression are two separate things. Who are you attracted to romantically? It sounds like you're only romantically interested in women. I guess you could be a lesbian.
2006-12-29 16:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does someone straight know they are before they've had a relationship? who are you attracted to, men or women? If both, then I would say you are bisexual, but if you are only attracted to women and not men, then you're a lesbian.
2006-12-29 10:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a lesbian woman and see if you are, i would love to help you out
2006-12-29 10:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by txlesbian06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe an "experience" will let you know what you really are..
if you fell in love with a girl, take your chances and evaluate how you feel about it..
sometimes we thought infatuation is love..
goodluck!
2006-12-29 10:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL look at porn and see if u like it! lol
(i did, and im bi so,yeah! i still think some guys are hott!)lol
2006-12-29 10:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Rin_san44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋