I have about two days before I talk about something very serious to someone and I am already nervous now. I found out that wine doesn't help, so what will?
2006-12-29 09:53:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Stop with the wine.
Nervousness: Let go. The world is full of things that are completely beyond your control: the weather, the economy, the Nielsen ratings, and Justin Timberlake.
I don't blame any of those things on you, and you shouldn't either.
Add one thing to that list: the outcome of your talk. All you can do is discuss things as straightforwardly as possible, and they will decide how they want to receive your words. Don't make it about spin, make it about a mature discussion. Resolve the issue, whatever it is.
It may not go your way, but hopefully it'll get resolved. You only own half of the issue, so you can't ping about the whole outcome. It's not yours to ping about.
2006-12-29 10:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Sit down in a quiet place and think about WHAT (not why) you are afraid of. Be as specific as you can be in your thoughts. Will you lose air? Water? Food? Life? If so, then don't do it. If not, usually, when you isolate such things, they will weaken and disappear under your scrutiny. Yes - 'he' will get upset. So? And so forth You'll be just dandy...
2006-12-29 10:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get over being nervous practice with someone what you going to say get some eucalyptus from bath and body works to relax.
2006-12-29 09:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by newmom05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice pretending to not be nervous about this conversation. Rehearse the conversation and the pretending to not be nervous. Eventually you'll be less nervous.
2006-12-29 09:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adopt a 'What the hell....this won't matter in a 100 years anyway' attitude.
Good luck and Happy New Year.
2006-12-29 09:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by lou b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always go for a very long walk with my girlfriends.Or sit and wacth a favorite movie I love to see.
2006-12-29 09:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put some lavender candles around your tub, fill it with almost hot water, lit the candles, lay back and just relax, if your into bubble bath or those scent things put that in, but main thing, just lay in there for awhile, hope it helps, know it does me
2006-12-29 09:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alchohol and wine won't do anything!!!! Everone thinks that will help and heck no it won't! I just forget I'm nervous. Worsk for me.
2006-12-29 09:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by ~Blue Eyes~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something better the wine honey. beep breaths and if you can get it over with before then that way you can feel better sooner:)
2006-12-29 09:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm music,Deep breathes(If you are seeing that person for a good reason you will naturaly say the right thing.)
2006-12-29 09:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋