i know i should have told him before but i didnt want it to ruin anything..do i tell him or not?
2006-12-29 09:47:37 · 18 answers · asked by Nyx 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Suggest a threesome with another woman and see how he takes it.
2006-12-29 09:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just tell him. slip it into a conversation you are having or something.
I don't know if it will ruin anything most guys seem more open to women being bi or gay then they are the ideal of man (but you know your husband and I don't, so he might have issues with it)
either way it's better to get it out of the way. If it becomes an issue then you know that wasn't really the right guy for you.
2006-12-29 09:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by goldenbrowngod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you then he should be able to accept you for who you are. Just make sure he knows that just because your bi doesn't mean you are gonna cheat on him with another woman like the stereotype says. Also if he's like a lot of heterosexual men I know let him know exactly what you are and aren't comfortable with as far as sex goes, because there are a lot of men who will immediately think threesome.
2006-12-29 10:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him. But dont believe the age old belief that guys like it when two girls get it on though. Alot of us guys find it a turn off.
2006-12-29 09:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on acting, then you should tell him. I think you should be a responsible adult and tell him in a mannor that will hopefully get you postitve results. I don't think you should act on your bisexuality unless he is aware in agrees. Talk it out. Honesty is best.
2006-12-29 09:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by sexxy_fem1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your husband gets home, be in bed with another woman, let him catch you having sex with her, tell him to join in. Believe me... he will accept you being bisexual.
2006-12-31 21:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's kinda ur husband so u cann open up 2 him. maybe hes bisexual 2
2006-12-29 09:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by michelle g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him.. say "honey, i figured we should spice up our sex life by bringing in a third party.. another woman..." then he'll be thrilled at the idea of a threesome.. when the threesome is taking place, show a great interest and delight in f***ing the other woman... trust me, i'm a guy!! : )
2006-12-29 09:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by J T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, because eventually, he will find out. Just come out and say "i'm bisexual.
2006-12-29 11:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Chase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I know a babe who said she wants to do it with
a man and a woman. But the man can't get any of the woman. DREAM ON!
2006-12-29 09:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Master_of_Psyche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should have told him before..
but i guess, if he truly loves you he'll accept you for what you have been in the past..
i hope i dont have plans of cheating your husband for a woman.. or other men..
2006-12-29 09:51:51 · answer #11 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋