Me and my man of 5 years need to split - we argue so much and are so bitter and snappy at eachother. But we can't be apart. And we can't pull it together. I love him so much, what should I do?
2006-12-29 09:23:50 · 11 answers · asked by libra10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get it through your thick skull that you guys are not in love. Also, women love being treated like crap. You are a prime example. No woman wants to admit it, but you will do anything for a man that treats you like sh*it. That's the boat you're in. If you want to change yourself, go ahead. It sounds like you're both in it for the long haul, unless you end up killing him.
2006-12-29 09:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 04:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u two tried just sitting down and talking about it. Because me and my boyfriend of four years now use to be like that. but best thing is to try to sit down and talk to him and set things straight. Tell each other what you expect and what you don't espect, ask each other the things you do or he does that make each of you mad so that the argueing can be prevented so you two wait tick each other off.and just listen until the other person gets done
2006-12-29 09:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a week or two apart. maybe you need some space. really, it helps a lot, gives you perspective on the whole issue, maybe you can see why you argue all the time so you can fix it.
2006-12-29 09:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is glue that is holding this relationship together. Get treatment together or yourself individually. This is a pattern that usually repeats and has its roots in our experiences growing up.
2006-12-29 09:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into counseling! Counseling will help you tons if you are both willing to really try and work things out.
2006-12-29 09:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like love, it sounds like an addiction. Get some help for yourself.
2006-12-29 09:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Professional therapy.
2006-12-29 09:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question.... think bout it. its hard to leave someone after a few years of being together. it gets easier after time. do it. have some fun.
2006-12-29 09:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will fizzle out when the time is right.
2006-12-29 10:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋