I know majority people are telling me don't think about pregnancy or it won't happen. How do you forget about it? Everyone around me seems pregnant or just had their baby!!! Sometimes I feel like I am going to crack, someone tell me they went through the same thing and what they did to forget about it. PLEASE.
2006-12-29 09:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by kikekk 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Don't listen to anyone except your doctor and your own inner self. Everybody has an opinion about everything--they'll tell you not to stress, don't think about it, you just need to relax...just tell me one thing...when did people who haven't suffered infertility become such experts on the subject? The advice that I am going to give you is the only advice that helped me during my 5 years of infertility--don't give up hope--it will happen!
2006-12-29 10:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by iansmommy818 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to forget this .Try hard to be happy at where you are at in life. You seems to have a good marriage as you are trying. Just try to think of the things other than children(i know hard) keep busy in a hobbie or volenteering somewhere. I did Make A Wish. .
I so believe things are suppost to happen as they are too.Have you looked aboption? Iknow many that have done this and wouldnt change it for anything!
My mom on the other had thought she would never have kids . Her and my aunt one night got so drunk and guess what After both had tried for a long time they both got preggo then lol
2006-12-29 10:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know excatly how you feel!! lol i seriously thought i was going to crack up over the whole thing...my husbands best freind had a bang buddy and they got pregnant and i was like how the hell....i mean they dont have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of! and they get pregnant......its just not fair.....eventually they get closer and closer to having there baby and you realize how much time has went by...all ive been doing is helping her get things ready and buying her baby stuff...it sucks but its still fun..and when it happends to us itll just happen..you gotta find something else to keep your mind off it..i know its hard one look down the baby isle at walmart will have me upset the rest of the night but....i just keep hoping...you know...pray to god..i know that sounds stupid..ive been praying to him for a baby for about a year now but i keep telling myself theres more serious prayers going out there...and god just hasnt had time to read mine yet....itll happen its going to happen eventually......goodluck sweetie if you ever need someone to talk to email me
2006-12-29 12:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? They dont mean literally 'forget about it'. They meant stopp stressing out, which you are obviously really stressing about it.
Stress causes the body to reject pregnancies sometimes and can prevent that baby from sticking! So they all mean to just relax and take it easy.
You relax, your body relaxes and welcomes the new embryo in safely.
2006-12-29 10:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WANT TO KNOW THE SAME THING!! my period was 5 days late this month and i thought Finlay but nope it started on Christmas day. I didn't have a very good Christmas my little sister (16) just had a baby and my little bro (19) just found out his gf is 1 and a half months preg. nether of them was ready but yet it happen to them every one tells me 1 day and to stop thinking about it but how when i feel like its in my face every day. oh well. BUT I FEEL YOU
2006-12-29 09:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Miranda S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to forget, but driving yourself nuts isn't going to help either.
Just *try* to relax and keep a positive attitude. Just try to "know" that you will get pregnant someday, if not today.
2006-12-29 09:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very little you can do. When I was trying to conceive it was torture watching all the pregnant chicks and the little newborns all over the place. I wish I had some fool proof advice to give you, but I just don;t.
Good Luck
2006-12-29 09:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would LOVE to know the answer to this one too! Seriously, I feel your pain.
2006-12-29 09:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by april08momma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be safe get birth control or some thing taking them precautions it shouldn't happen but if so it was just meant to be.
2006-12-29 09:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋