it's very difficult for me to communicate with people, especialy with new people
2006-12-29 08:54:56 · 9 answers · asked by vaisigita 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Talk about them. What kind of work do they do? Do they find their job fulfilling etc. If they ask you a question keep you answers very short and turn the conversation back to them.Within three or four questions their answers will give you ideas for new questions. The person gets a very good impression of you but has learned nothing about you. This will make them curious and wanting to talk with you again.
2006-12-29 09:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by felixtricks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to start a conversation right away. After all it's good to introduce yourself or someone else introduce you then listen. Sometimes I just listen. Then you can respond to that person or conversation with a short statement Then let them talk. Conversation. An excange of thoughts between two or more people. What they think, then what do you think. Don't be too concerned, they don't know what to say either.
2006-12-29 09:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wherever you meet them ask them if they have been there before or go there often like a bar just to break the ice. Then move on to things like what they do for fun. Stuff like that.
2006-12-29 09:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's many things to talk about you just need to practice talking more adn just think of more things to say
weather
what they do
what you do
what's around
just different stuff...good books...music
I hope you find some good conversation topics!
2006-12-29 09:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a set of questions that I ask the person. Ask about their interests, music, movies, school or job. Ask questions about THEM and hopefully they'll think of follow up questions to ask you!
2006-12-29 10:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Debi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about THEM. Ask them about themselves.
Breaks the ice and shows your interest.
Find some common areas.....
2006-12-29 09:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weather and traffic. Her dress, his tie.
Never religion or politics, Never.
2006-12-29 08:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same problem!
help us plz.
2006-12-29 08:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEM!
2006-12-29 09:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋