2006-12-29 08:45:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
You can never get them to change, so don't try.Has he told you that he's had bad relationships in the past---well it takes two to make anything work---did he tell them the same thing?If you want to change him, you can't.If he dwells on his past it's not his past yet---find Mr.Right---don't waste time with a man that blames his misery on someone else....Be Happy....
2006-12-29 10:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try or pry.
The wall is high and strong. Only patience may crumble it.
I will tell you what my second one told me. If you don't love again, you can't be loved.
She died young like the first.
So I remembered that and tried once more.
Disaster!
I'm there now, my 3rd wall. This one will never come down. Higher and stronger than ever.
2006-12-29 17:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his privacy!! You don't need to know his deepest thoughts, aches and pains. Just be a good person and except him and let him be who he wants to be. In time if he wishes to open up then fine, but I think we need to let people open in there own time when they feel safe or respect the fact that they aren't going to and just be there.
2006-12-29 17:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by twink3110 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. Let him know you are there for him and when he is ready to talk you will listen.
2006-12-29 16:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋