sue and tom actually have been dating on and off for 15 yrs until tom married my friend 2 yrs ago.sue ran into tom at a conference after not seeing him for over 3yrs but was only able to say hi do to thier schedule.this sparked a phone call between them(not sure who called who)which made sue frustrated.when i asked why she replied when 2 people have a history like we do,i would expect more than a 15 min. conversation about "small talk".when i asked her if she wanted more she said she's not sure just "different".sue is single and knows tom is married.my friend has no clue that any of this is going on.i'm afraid because tom left his last gf for sue so he could be tempted again.i know its not my business i just feel bad for my friend if sue is up to her old tricks again.so my questions are from what i have just said what does my sister want from tom?why would she expect different from a married man than just small talk?is it a bad sign that tom has not told my friend any of this?
2006-12-29 08:44:42 · 6 answers · asked by lynngreener768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have too much time on your hands.
2006-12-29 08:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. maybe Tom didn't think anything of it... and didn't mention it... maybe your sister.. wants him but doesn't... is happy when she has him.. or when she doesn't and he is single but now that he is married she wants him back to pay attention to her... or... she may just think that there should of been more then a brief convo.... depends on how things ended... I take it your friend that is married to Tom... knows he dated your sister??? When you see Tom.. just simply bring it up ( when you 2 are alone) that you heard he and your sister ran into each other.... and see what he has to say about it... he might of broke up with a gf in the past but he is married now.. that is a bit more different ( I hope anyway )
take care
2006-12-29 08:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister Sue is still in love with Tom.
2006-12-29 08:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell should anyone on here know what Sue wants from Tom? We don't even know these people. Way to waste our time..............thanks for the points though.
2006-12-29 08:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling labored on your marriage, why no longer attempt it for the relatives? Youre relatives and you have some years forward, and you dont decide on akwardness interior the way of Christmases or birthdays or the different get togethers. and probably if youre in a small city you spot one yet another alot. and whether you arent soft with counseling why no longer recommend you all sitting down and discussing the area like adults? Yea it truly is going to likely be ackward for the tiem era youre bringing it up and speaking, yet doesnt that beat years of ackwardness at holiday journeys and relatives get togethers?
2016-10-28 16:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by andry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sue wants more from tom but tom isn't going for it, tom made small talk with her, sue expected tom to talk about them, when tom didn't it made sue feel insignificant.
2006-12-29 12:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋