I often wonder if I am the only one that muses on the first boy I ever loved, what happened to him, does he ever think of me? I also wonder, do men/males/boys/guys ever think this way or wonder about that missed opportunity to ask a girl out. So - Do you? Tell me the story.
2006-12-29 08:36:18 · 10 answers · asked by Diana R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not the only one I did it too. One day I called him out of the blue and he told me he thought about me too. Even after four years he knew it was me calling because he recognized my number on his caller ID. Turns out that he did wonder about the missed opportunity and professed his love for me, which was sweet because he was so nervous when he did it. Most guys are pigs.... but he is not most guys, that is why he gets the girl.
2006-12-29 08:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Zee Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do pop into my head once in a while for no reason whatsoever. I'm not really bothered by it because I am over most of them. But then about some of them I wonder if they are still single because they were the last time I saw them and I never said anything because I thought they were too hot for me. I don't waste my time thinking about them, though, because I've allowed my heart to be hardened on the matter.
2006-12-29 09:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty natural to sometimes wonder about past relationships. I made the mistake of contacting someone from my past I remembered as 'mysterious'. Twelve years and one child later I discovered that 'mysterious' was actually diagnosed Psychopathic Personality Disorder. He'd neglected to mention that previously. Let that be a warning to anyone considering returning to an ex. They're an ex for a reason, listen to your instincts and keep the happy memories.
2006-12-29 09:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....I think about this guy named Alper Turk 24-7. I wonder where is he, does he have a girlfriend, does he think about me, how would it have been If I never moved! I am madly deeply in love with this guy and I haven't seen nor talked to him since 2002! I still pray til this day that we will somehow bump into each other and be like "WOW"! I guess all I can do is pray!
2006-12-29 08:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by MYPHARRELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do all the time. It's quite a long story. Mine is a "missed opportunity" story...but it was me and not him who missed it. Go to www.lostlovers.com. There's a lady who has researched and written on the subject. You will find there are tons of people who say yes! Both sexes do. You will also find dozens of stories. Post your own at the forum. :-) best wishes!
2006-12-29 08:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by morticia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of all and sundry has lost love in some unspecified time interior the destiny of their existence - its merely the way issues are. the type you manage it in spite of the undeniable fact that's what determines the type you're making it. bear in mind that each and every thing happens for a reason you won't see it now yet in time you will. there could be somebody obtainable that stands out as the gentle on your existence quickly sufficient yet for now merely comprehend you're actually not on my own and you oftentimes have desire find that love that all of us deserve - in basic terms you could answer if it became love interior the 1st place - what you felt from that person you may comprehend if it became.
2016-11-24 23:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and have talked to him. We were loves from the first grade till i was 16. Didnt have anything in comman. But i ended up marrying his 2nd cousin. Thank God i didnt end up with my first. Since he has had a brain tumor and isnt exactly right. This is his 2nd marriage. He is just wasted ..Health probs and the whole nine yards. I think or I know i married the right one.
2006-12-29 08:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time I think about it. I wonder if I would have been better off with my first love as opposed to the man I married. I can't help but think my life would've been better...but I guess I'll never know.
2006-12-29 08:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by crank726 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think about one of my ex lovers all of the time.
FOR YEARS
saw him out about 14 years after we dated and did not even recognize him
He was probably 380 pounds
unemployed and just all around nasty.
Keep it a fantasy
they are ex's for a reason
2006-12-29 08:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-12-29 08:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by nadaclue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋