Ok well i have 2 do this project and i haf 2 make a poster and everything so wen i get back 2 skool i have 2 talk about it in front of the WHOLE class and theres like 30 or more ppl there and im like SERIOUSLY SHY! i get all RED and i 4get wat 2 say and ppl always laugh wen this happens so i have NO IDEA wat 2 do wen its my turn! oh i have 2 talk for about 5 minutes! OMG thats 2 long of time!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-12-29 08:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by quizysk8erchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everbody feels uncomfortable and embaressed when they have to speak in front of a group. That feeling only goes when you've had lots of practice. My advice to you would be to decide to act as if you are really confident (this really works - people will believe it if you do it well enough). Try to speak clearly and breathe normally and mentally tell yourself you're not embarressed so you're not going to blush. The other thing that will help is to be really well prepared, checking and refining what you will say until you're really happy with it. Read it to yourself in the mirror and you will see you don't appear stupid or dumb, so no need to be embaressed. Finally when you've done all the above read it to someone you trust to be honest, like you mom or your best friend. Everyone else is probably feeling exactly as you are. Good luck.
2006-12-29 08:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask your teacher if you can use a power point in your talk.
You can have cheat starter lines on the screen and it will keep you on track. Also, it is easier to present with a powerpoint if you are shy you can keep your eyes on the screen and practice your presentation for each slide that comes up. Be shy is something you can overcome. May I suggest that you try to over come this by joining the debating team at school?
Hope you get a A+
2006-12-29 16:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now I know how to give you the soultion first of all you are not used to this its ok ! but if you practiced in front you're family like you're parents and if you're totaly shy it means you needed help very quickly. You need to face you're fear I have the same feeling don't think. I had to give a speech to become a Student Council before on the days and believe me I got soo scared my heart was beating but I got elected and won ! see no bigge just try to say it without getting scared a lot just be you're-self nothing is going to happent to you !
2006-12-29 16:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how u feel. lol. ok so talk to ur teacher before class and ask if there is an alternative project to do that doesnt involve going in front of the class. one of my teachers had me pick 2 of my bestfriends and just do it in front of them and the teacher after school. or u can just ask to do it in front of the teacher after school. and if this doesnt work then just plan refuse becuz seriously ur teacher cant make u do anything that make u uncomfortable. so if u refuse wait until u go home and talk to ur parents about it and tell them how much it upsets u and hopefully they will understand and then maybe they can help u with it. if that doesnt work then go see ur guidance counselor and see if u 2 can work something out with ur teachers. good luck and i hpe it works out ok!
2006-12-29 16:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make bulleted notes. Then spread out your words. Make it seem like you know what you are doing. Practice with your family. Learn to be unshy. You can do it great if you practice. Plus, it is only a project. No one can judge you on a project. Hope that helps.
2006-12-29 16:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Starwarsrocks! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you make it (the poster) about shyness? Why the skin get's red when you blush and so on.. No one will notice how red you are, and if they do, you could claim it's part of the project. ;)
There is also a lot of breathing exercises you can do. Just Google.
2006-12-29 16:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by xxxSadiexxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to look at the audience or your classmates
And focus more on your speech or whatever it is
I use to tremble when i have to give a speech
But later on i get over it
By focusing more on the thing than looking at others
and try not to have your mind on them
Good Luck =)
2006-12-29 16:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by JeZzZ J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you need to learn to spell.I have been there and you can do it. Get it in your head what you want to say. Have some notes on hand. 2 min.. isnt that long ..
2006-12-29 16:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice, practice, practice.........over, and over, and over.
Everyone hates to do this sort of thing. Really get into whatever it is you're gonna talk about.
2006-12-29 16:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well talk to your teacher .
mabe practecie talking infront of alot of people .
2006-12-29 16:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by waldo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋