i have never done it before in my life
2006-12-29 08:23:54 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't do it unless you want to and not because he is forcing you. if you just relax and do it you'll realize that it's really not that big of a thing. just make sure you tell your husband that you are usure as to what to do and that you are going to go slow. make sure he understands that you may want to stop before he does. just go for it. you'll feel more comfortable with it as you gain experience. and trust me your husband will be more than willing to let you practice as much as you want.
2006-12-29 08:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by *~ riddles ~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell him you want to learn. (I am perplexed how in this day and age how you have never tried!)
Start by stimulating him without his ejaculating into your mouth. Do you guys do a lot of manual petting and foreplay? If so, you must be aware where the center of a man's feeling is (his frenelum, especially where it touches the glans, and its extension over his testes and below). Stimulate him (especially his frenelum) with your tongue from the side so that he shoots into the air (this can be very, very exciting, at least it is for me). Just do it that way for a couple of weeks. Then, when you are ready,
after he ejaculates that way clean off the tip of his penis with your tongue so you can taste him but just a little bit so you will know what it is like. If all OK for you you might wish to dip your fingertip into wherever the bulk of his semen has gone and eat some more of it. This should get you comfortable with it fairly quickly and to understand if you will enjoy providing full fellatio or not (if you do here is a hint to make it even better for him: as he moans and is about to come gently caress his testes).
Good luck. It is just about the world's most wonderful and meaningful pleasures.
2006-12-29 09:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it and what your fears are. Make sure he understands that you are fearful so he doesnt get overexcited and be forceful while caught up in the moment. Take your time, relax and just use it as foreplay for now. If you are scared to begin with you probably dont want to swallow your first time! He should probably be sitting or laying down so you are over him and more in control. Let him instruct you as to what feels good and what he wants/needs.
It can be a very enjoyable thing for both of you
Good Luck
2006-12-29 08:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by his temptress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont explain what the fear is so that makes it hard.
but i would say just try a few popsicles suck on them in the same manner as you would the other and never use your teeth.
i would ask him not to finish while your doing your work there as that might be too much for a first time.
anyway if you want please feel free to come over to my place and i will teach you on me . i am told i am a good teacher and have taught a few women this fantastic art form .
anyway have fun.
2006-12-29 08:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bella there is nothing to fear. If you love him just go down on him and lick and suck. The more you do it the better you will become at doing it and if you truly love him you will let him climax and then swollow for him. There is nothing more beautiful than a loving woman doing that for a man.
2006-12-29 08:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice, practice, practice.
Don't be afraid. It won't bite you. You'll be as good as any with just a little practice. Trust me on this.
My wife was a "first timer" as you are. She said all the same things any woman would say. Now.... She can't get enough of it.
She won't go " all the way though".
She became so good at it, she had to try it on some "strange".
2006-12-29 08:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of a hard thing to mess up. Hell, most guys, myself included just like seeing a girl hold it in her hands! It's really not that big of a deal, only like the most important, best feeling thing you could do for your man. One important thing though, watch out for your teeth. Lips, tongue, spit, and suction are GOOD - teeth are bad, very bad. Lighten up and enjoy it - think about how good it's making him feel. Finally, your married, get over your fears already. That's one of the HUGE benefits of being married. Good luck to you.
2006-12-29 08:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I did it to my husband I told him I didn't like it. He said he didn't want me to do something I didn't like doing . But a few months later I tried it again. The more I tried it the more I liked it. If you just worry about pleasing him you will learn that you are pleasing yourself to and it becomes very sensual.
2006-12-29 10:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by nodesignerdogs4me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not for everyone, but it's really not as bad as everyone says. I actually enjoy doing it for my husband. Start with baby steps and start with little kisses and go from there. Maybe take a bath together to ensure cleanliness. It's not as bad as you may think!!
2006-12-29 08:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend or practice on a carrot. Rent an explicit movie, get into it. His pleasure should bring you happiness and it'll just come naturally!
2006-12-29 08:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋