Ok, so I am dating this guy named Nick, and have been dating him for about... 3 or 4 weeks. I liked him, and I didn't even kno him. I think i liked him becuz i thought he was hot. So i asked him out and he said yes. I gave him a Christmas present, and he is going to give me mine on Tuesday. The reasons why I am gonna break up with him are: 1. I sent him a text asking "Would u ever kiss me?" becuz i couldn't stop think about it and him, and he just said "maby". 2. I sent him a text one night saying "Nick... I love you." becuz we do that all the time, and I kno it might be to early for "love" but its kinda hard to stop saying it after u start. well he replied back saying "i kno." 3. He never sends me texts or calls or gets on IM. 4. We only see eachother one time each day. 5. He never says "Hi" to me in the hallway.
Should i break up with him? And if so then how?
2006-12-29 08:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by H A N N A H(: 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And another reason, is becuz he's kinda fading, becuz i like a guy named Robert Hunter now.
2006-12-29 08:24:09 · update #1
i am 13 and he is 2. he's only had 2 other gf's in his life. and i ahve had about.... 8 bfs in my life
2006-12-29 08:44:26 · update #2
i meant that we r both 13... duh duh duh
2006-12-29 10:49:25 · update #3
Break up with him. You are young... Sew your wild oats!!! Plus he sounds kinda like a dickweed.
2006-12-29 08:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like you might be trying to hard. It's only been a couple of weeks. I don't know how old you are but it sounds like your still in school. Guys don't like it when girls are to quick. You have to be cool, slow, just hang out. It's way way way to early to be telling someone you love them after only 3 weeks, you barely know this guy. I would think that with him not texting you back, or saying hi to you is probably a sign that he doesn't want to be that involved. I'm sorry. I would probably break up with him but not in a mean way. It's not his fault, and it's not your fault, you just 2 different people that want different things right now. I would just be nice about it, even though that's hard to do sometimes. Good luck =)
2006-12-29 08:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by aimabbs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For your next realtionship, remember this:
Never EVER say you love someone when you don't. It will come back to bite you later. Trust me, I know.
Secondly:
If you want to break up with this kid, then just do it. He doesn't seem much like a boyfriend to me, but since it's only been 3-4 weeks, maybe you should stick it out. People can change as you get to know them.
Thirdly,
If you do decide to break up with him, just be straight and to the point. Don't pussyfoot around the end.
2006-12-29 14:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by •LetangFan• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! Well now to your question . . . I would say that since he is a rookie with girls that i think you should sit him down sometime on a weekend that both of you are free, and then talk to him about what you want out of the relationship, and ask him personal things like "Why do you like me?" or "We really need to talk more, i mean we have a lack of communication." Ask him or tell him things like that. And if he answer your questions by saying something like "I don't know" or "OK whatever." Then it is time to move on.
IF
You break up with him then say something like "I am sorry but you just don't talk to me enough, well not as much as i want you too. I am really sorry but I would like to just be just friends."
2006-12-29 11:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tomboyalc123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think the problem with nick is that he isnt very much experienced in the dating world if he's only had 2 girl-friends in his life and you are more experienced since you've had 8 bfs. maybe you're taking it too fast for him. try slowing down to his pace and maybe you guys relationship might get better.
**GOOD LUCK**
♥ candy-diva ♥
2006-12-29 12:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ candy-diva ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you should keep playing with Barbies and wait until you grow up a bit before you start having boyfriends. You clearly aren't even remotely mature enough for it. You can't spell/write clearly, you can't "love" someone at 13 after 3 weeks, he obviously isn't into you. Just stop bothering him and it will be obvious that you have "broken up" from your little relationship. Jeez.
2006-12-29 09:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well give Nick another day or 2 if he is still like that dump the sucker lol
2006-12-29 08:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats not a good relationship, and that you should break up with him. when you see him tell him that you don't like him anymore, and that you need someone that will give you all the attention that you need, something that you could not get wit him ok..
2006-12-29 08:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by pg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound very into you. Sry to tell you that but I think you can find someone who actually can't wait to see and talk to you. Just tell him things aren't working out. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-29 08:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by luvmyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the Hunter dude.
2006-12-29 08:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋