ok i just found out i was pregnant problem i was only 18 and we want a baby but now we are kinda of scared i was wondering if anyone else who is pregnant at 18 or has been can give me some advice
2006-12-29 08:08:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i had my first at 17. 3 months b4 my 18th so that blew my celebrations and drinking out the window. basically babe if you are a social butterfly who loves to get drunk and let your hair down, partying hard, forget it. i love my kids so much and wouldnt change a thing except the age i had her. i lost my social life, my friends stopped asking me to go out anywhere and i lost sleep more than anything. if you feel your ready go for it, you wont regret it but if you love freedom with yourself and your partner consider everything. i dont believe in abortion but each to their own. only you can make the choice. 1. social life, gatherings and parties. 2.amazing miracles everyday teaching your child and raising to be everything you want it to be, watching he/she grow to an adult. its hard to explain what joy a child brings to your life. i gave up the social life and that i dont regret at all. good luck with your desicion.
2006-12-29 13:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by stimpy792003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny don't be scared.Everything will be fine. I had my first when I had just turned 18 6 days before.She is about to turn 2 and she is the best thing that has ever happened to me.My fiance and I are young but everything has been fine for us.We have had our ups and downs but don't we all.We are now about to have a little boy in Feb and I will just be turning 20 in Jan.So if I can do it,anyone can.If you ever need any other advice, email me I have no problem talking .....redeminem1262@yahoo.com You'll love it. Enjoy every minute.Good luck....hope I helped
2006-12-29 16:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by KIM L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im 18 and 8 n a half months pregnant with no daddy for my baby i still live with my mom and she and my family support me very much if you want this baby to have a good life then u will make that happen if you would like to chat im me at mypnut788@Aim.com hope this helps
2006-12-29 16:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my daughter when I was 19, she is almost 4 now. Don't be scared kids are amazing, you have to strong and tough. And they mature you in ways you never thought you could. Congratulations and good luck. Things will get rough at times but you can pull through.
2006-12-29 16:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i had ma wee girl when i was 18. shes now 19mths old and the most wonderful thing in my life.
dont be sceared just read up and goto a birth support group 4 young mums. i did this and made lots of ausome mates and now our babys all play 2gether.
good luck to you and baby :)
2006-12-29 17:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by tully 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you got what you wanted now time to research. Get the book "what to expect when you are expecting" I highly recommend that one. Take parenting classes and lamaze classes. Both are good ideas. Read a lot of books about babies and parenting. Get a subscription to Parents magazine and remember girls a lot younger than you do it . YOU CAN TOO!! Good luck and congrats!!!
2006-12-29 16:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Amberlyn4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST TURNED 18 AND IM 17 WEEKS PREGNANT!, I AM SCARED TO BUT YOU GOT TO THINK POSTIVE AND JUST KNOW THAT YOU CAN DO IT, I KNOW I WILL BE A GREAT MOMMY, AND IF YOU ARE SCARED ABOUT MONEY THERE IS MEDICADE AND FOODSTAMPS AND WIC THAT CAN HELP U WITH THE BABYS FOOD AND ALL THAT
2006-12-29 16:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by itz_nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school. And remember you are a mom 1st.. Social life is out the door for a while... Always put your child 1st. You are about to grow up really fast...
2006-12-29 16:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 16 and im pregnant, i guess the only thing i can say is this is a chapter in your life your gonna get through togethe, and in the end youll see its all worth it when you have that new born child in your arms to love you for who you are and not your mistakes
2006-12-29 16:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by 19years_young 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun my major advice for you is to be strong. everything happens for a reason. stay positive because our kids learn from us. dont stress over the little things, it wont be long before your baby isnt a baby anymore so just enjoy.
2006-12-29 16:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋