Have you ever turned a guy down because he had a small penis?
I was going to have a one night stand with a hot girl I know from work however when she saw how small my penis was she turned me down.(in a nice way)?
My penis is 5inches long and has a girth of 3.8inches when hard
Would you have done the same?
2006-12-29 08:03:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To Katme:
I thought girth was better than describing my slim/skinny penis as being 3.8inches thick! IM me if you want
2006-12-29 08:54:57 · update #1
if she chooses her boyfriends by the size of their dicks, then you're better off without her. she sounds like a pretty shallow person to me. anyway, 5 inches is pretty normal. don't worry about it.
2006-12-29 08:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are having a one night stand with someone it is purely about sexual gratification. If your penis wasn't going to do it for the girl then I suppose it makes sense for her to turn you down. If you knew she had a vagina like a clowns pocket would you have bothered?
No, I would never turn a man down because of his size. Personally, the size of a mans penis is not an issue. (Knowing, fancying and liking the person is)
Don't get hung up about your size, there is nothing more off putting than a man who lacks confidence.
Get yourself back on the bicycle,
Good Luck
Sparky x
2006-12-29 09:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by bigcitygirl_uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how that is considered small - more like average. So don't worry. I have dated a guy with a small penis and it was more his heart that mattered than his member. While it was a bit challenging....it was the fire in his kiss that made up for it.
As for turning down a guy due to size...eh maybe. He was asian and despite a killer body ...I did make excuses not to get closer. Though we had more that separated us than just his Size.
2006-12-29 08:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done that, yes.
Then again, I dated a cop with a small penis once. His tongue action was pretty on point, though. I guess that made up for it.
We dated for a few months before I realized what an a**hole he was!! He constantly asked me if I was satisfied with him. I said yes because I was. Due to his insecurities, I had to leave him.
You shouldn't put so much pressure on the fact that you're small "down there". Remain confident when with a mate. Maybe you can show her your other skills?
2006-12-29 08:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rena T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't typically know what size a guy's penis is until we're ready to do the deed...at that point, I wouldn't stop the action and say "no thanks" but it's quite possible I wouldn't choose to see him again, especially if I wasn't impressed with his performance...
You seriously need to get over your size issue though dude...your insecurity about it probably follows you like a dark fog...
2006-12-29 08:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the girl's past sex experience and the reason why she wants to sleep with you.
Also, I suppose it might be hard, but try not not to be obsessed about it; Don't let it spoil it for you; It's like everything else, for some people it will matter and others not. x
2006-12-29 08:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Errr.... You measured your manhood???? And took enough time over it to take into accout 0.8 of an inch?? Most people would just say 4inches!! You have a complex about it mate!!
Errmm, No, i'd not have turned anyone down
2006-12-29 08:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Clare 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean but there is nothing exciting about a small penis. Especially after you been with someone who is above average or average. I guess she could of participated and gave you a show with her faking. Sounds to me that you may want to stop advertising your short comings that's disappointing.
2006-12-29 08:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i have been turned down by 2 girls i am only 4.5 inches erect i can understand that it didnt turn them on same as a guy prefers big breasts,my girlfriend says intercourse is more pleasure with a larger penis but is happy to reach orgasm by oral or fingers
2007-01-01 05:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by rachels a cd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, size doesn't matter to me if i love the boy. but if it's a one night stand there is no love.
however, there are some women who care about how big you are down there, and there are some who do not. this is why one night stands aren't good, though:]
2006-12-29 08:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jenniferrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋