my boyfriend of 2.5 years was talking to his ex girl friend of 4 years last month on the phone. He was talking to her before he go to work and after work. For him to go to work he have to go through the city she lives in. I think he has been seeing her. It was a big surpise to me because through our whole relationship I have been talking to my ex boyfriend too. I've cheated and everything with him but, so has he in the pass but with someone else. should I be worried or should I just get over it?
2006-12-29 07:51:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get over it
2006-12-29 07:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight. You have been unfaithful to your boyfriend of 2.5 years, but you're asking if you should still be with him because he's talking to his ex?
I think you should run from all men as quickly as you can, do not pass go, do not collect $200, and seek therapy. You are a warped individual if you think you cheating is OK but him possibly seeing his ex is an issue. You don't deserve a relationship, or at the very least, not a good one.
2006-12-29 15:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated - he cheated. You talk to your ex - he talks to his ex.
And behind each other's back!
Should you be worried? The only thing you should be worried about is one of you giving the other one AIDS, or an STD, or maybe a violent physical confrontation, when someone (you, him, or one of the exes) finds out they've been lied to.
Stop being an idiot! Find someone YOU can be honest with, and monogamous with.
2006-12-29 15:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it sounds like your relationship isn't the best anyway if you've both cheated. You have also set that up as how the relationship will probably work from now on.
Either deal with it or get out.
2006-12-29 15:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have no business being together.
A loving relationship includes trust and loyalty; which it seems is lacking in this union.
2006-12-29 16:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by HJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand of what you said, I dont see a good reason for you both to be together.
2006-12-29 15:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both cheating on each other why are you together? If you want to be with each other then don't cheat
2006-12-29 15:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've cheated, he's cheated, get over it!
2006-12-29 15:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by musicisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are a perfect match,enjoy the low lifes that you and he live!!
2006-12-29 16:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by youngprincez23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GET OVER IT
2006-12-29 15:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋